Sister-in-laws
By m0mmy0f03
@m0mmy0f03 (364)
United States
June 25, 2008 10:30pm CST
I have been married to my husband for almost 4 years. Let me tell you his family is a little crazy. When I frist meet his sister you could just tell she was stuck up. Well,we never got a long and really never hung out or talk on the phone. If we ever talked its because I anw. it to give it to my husband. SHe always got on my nervos and never wanted to be around her. We only seen her when she watched are kids or there was a family thing going on and I was forced to see her.
Well,about a year ago something happened, I couldn't tell you what but there was something. She changed into a different person. Well I cant say a different person. I just think she grow up. Now we talk almost every day just about stupid stuff. We hang out all the time and I love being around her. We are like sisters now. Even thouth im not in her wedding she still makes me feel like Im apart of it. Which makes me feel so good. She still sometimes gets on my neroves but what sister doesnt? She calls me when she is having problems or have a stressfull day. If there is a problem I just call her and she just lets me vent and just listens. Its going so good me and my husband asked her and her soon to be hubby to be are childerns god parents and the said yes. Im so exticed that my life is going into the right dierction. I still dont get a long to well with his mother but that is a whole new story I would be up all damn night typing on the computer.lol SO here is to me sister in law that I love so much!
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4 responses
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Am so happy to hear you're such good friends with your sister-in-law. Am sure this is good for your husband as well.
I have two sister-in-laws. One is great even though we aren't real close and the other I rarely see and that's fine. I don't want to be seen with her since a bar of soap and shampoo are far from her regular routine. I don't tell either of them too much about my personal life. I find it easier to keep the friendship at a distance.
By the way, I am probably old enough to be your grandmother but that doesn't matter right? I can still think and act normal when in public..lol
Have a great day,
carolbee
@m0mmy0f03 (364)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Hey carol,
No it doesnt matter that your old enough to be my grandmother. You are a vvery sweet lady and you give great edvice.
Have a great day!
@entrepreneurgirl (273)
• United States
27 Oct 08
Wow, wish my sister in law would grow up! She's still really immature and has been mean to me since I met her but put on a good face around everyone else. Right now she's been excommunicated from the family for a while so we'll see if that changes her any. Plus she just got married, hope she's happy, she chose him and his family over all of us because she refused to even include any of us or be kind. Oh well, it's her loss. I just feel bad for my in-laws because no matter what happens you sitll love your kids.
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
Just like you, I've been married to my husband for more than five years now and we have a loving daughter who is turning three this year.
Regarding my in-laws, I'm quite okay with them including my sisters-in-law. My husband has four male siblings and two female siblings; so I've got two sisters-in-law by my husband.
If my memory serves me right, I never had any quarrels with them. In fact, my eldest sister-in-law who's eighteen years of age has even stopped schooling for one year upon my husband's request just to act as a nanny to our daughter. In return, we gave her an amount as allowance for her schooling last year, aside from numerous gifts we have given her on several occasions.
I've got to admit that sometimes, I feel closer to them rather than my own female siblings.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
26 Jun 08
I am happy that your sister in law has changed and that you get along with her now. Sometimes it's hard to get along with your husband's family, and although I can't understand why, I believe it's true. I get along great with my fiance's family, he has no sisters. He has one brother but we don't see him very often. Nevertheless I am very happy that your sister in law has come around for you. Have a Great day.
