Do you still have feeling for your first love?!
By kurtavish
@kurtavish (135)
Mauritius
June 25, 2008 11:10pm CST
Do you still have feelings for your first girlfriend or boyfriend?
My first real love hurted me so much that today I feel so much happy that she left me. Yea I did felt sad for a long time when she first did it but now with my current gildfriend around...whom I love much more than anyone else...I feel so happy that my first love left me! And I also hate my first love so much for what she did but then when I think...Why in hell should I hate her?? She was stupid to abandon me...its her loss. Not mine! Just have to make as if she never ever existed.
Coz I have today a girlfriend who love me a lot and I love her too very much.
And you?
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10 responses
@ReenaDKL (206)
• Mauritius
8 Jul 08
First love is most often more about infatuation or physical attraction.
I believe you love only once in your life. I would qualify the others as dates. So though I still remember who my first date was, he has no whatsoever importance in my life now. The moment we split it's over. Actually I never parted in a friendly way with any of my previous dates, so we are not even on talking terms.
Personnaly I don't think any of your ex should hold any importance in your present life. Maybe you can learn from old mistakes, but never let your past spoil your present.
@skatemate (213)
• Suriname
1 Jul 08
I really miss my first girlfriend. I can tell you that she was a freak in bed. I'm now all alone but I still flirt with her behind her boyfriends back.
@mikerockzu (155)
• India
26 Jun 08
for me i only have one gal and shez my first and last love.i'm lovin her for 10 yrs now and i expressed it to her very recently .shez also having the same feelings to me but she felt a bit shy to express it. newayz i tuk the step and now we'r happy together. we'r mates from school n all our frnz are happy over our relationship.
@situskeren (95)
• Indonesia
26 Jun 08
No...of course no.
I felt nothing to him just now.Even i become ill feel to him.Why? Because he made me dissappointed.
@steeleIC (107)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Hmm, now this is quite a tricky question to answer. I can say that I do still have a bit of a spark for my first major crush during high school. At the time, this was probably the closest thing to love I'd ever known but really it was only a crush. If I would happen to see this person out somewhere (which I rarely do) I'm sure I'd feel that little twitch in my throat and those butterflies in my stomach. Not because I have any desire to be with him but just because it brings back memories of years ago. As for my first actual love, no feelings at all. I would not wish any bad luck on him but as long as we stay far away from each other I am a happy girl. We ended on very bad terms and I look back and think to myself sometimes "What was I thinking?" Now even though my current hubby wasn't technically my first love, I think he was my first genuine true love - the kind that lasts a lifetime because it is felt so strongly from both people. I will always have feelings for him and hope that we grow older and grayer together because I still have the same feelings for him that I did when I met him over ten years ago.
@cutie143 (215)
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
I dont have feeling for my first love anymore. Everytime we see each other, i felt nothing coz, i already found my true love, my husband, and am very happy with him.
@Odamashin (434)
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
Well, he's just part of my past..i do moved on with my life with my beloved husband..and with our kid...I must be thankful for he left me hanging for nothing..because if he didn't then, I'm not able to meet my true love..and destiny...so thanks to him..i'm now very happy with my life..
@ylj1266 (39)
• China
26 Jun 08
my first love still comes to my dream occasionally.He is visting my web site everyweek but leaving no comments on it.He is now living in Germany, a girl friend, a nice job.we haven't spoken to each other for 8 years. I got married and my husband and i are deeply in love. there's just little feeling for my first love,maybe it will die down with time passing by.
@rane0328 (129)
• United States
26 Jun 08
Yes i do an in my situation i have a child by him to remind me of that everyday. But life moves on and if it weren't 4 him leaving i wouldn't have met my husband who i love more than life itself, and the child he gave me was a true gist as well. So if i seen him today i would definately thank him