My son... is now a..Girl!

It's not a choice and it's not what they do. It's who they are and what they feel.

umm i am a christian and i beleive in the bible, and it says they choose to b "like" that they aren't bord that way so beleive what u want.

Where does the bible say that gay people choose to be gay?? I am a Christian also. I follow the teachings of Christ. Where did jesus say that gay people in committed monogamous relationships were wrong? Nowhere is the answer. If it was a big thing to Him, would he not have metioned it??

Well of course your initial reaction would be shocked and awe. Maybe for some ppl but I know I woudlnt be shocked...but I also REALLY know my kids so I'd know pretty quick

I agree with Raven. A lot of people would be shocked but those parents who were really in tune with their children would probably know long before the child was able to know and understand. And then there wouldn't really be some big, dramatic announcement about it. How many teenagers come home one day and say, "Mom, I heterosexual." Not too many I'm sure because it's usually pretty obvious. I would hope that a gay child of mine would have the same comfort to just be who they are without anyone thinking it needed a big announcement.

Bullsh!t, suspense. Gay men are still men. My goodness, how stupid you are. I always thought that with age comes wisdom. I guess there are exceptions to all rules. I hate myself for hating you. Why must you be so ignorant? Many people on here who disagree with me, I can respect. They give me words to chew on. Your words are less than water; no substance. Educate yourself. Stop being stupid. and if you insult my son one more time, I will chew you a new as$hole; you ignorant cow.

I apologize. My anger got hte better of me. Consider me a mother lion protecting her cub. But it doesn't mean that I can respect your views. My name calling was out of line. I'm sorry.

he may not want to be. My son didn't want to be gay. he just is, because he was born that way. But we take what we are given.

Cyntrow, I owe you an apology. I started the dicussion that I did on homosexuality because of this discussion. When you came over to my discussion, I did not remember that you were the same person who started this discussion. I was angry and a little hard on you. I also did not know that you were speaking about your actual son. God can change his life if that is what he wants. The first thing that he needs to do is accept God as his personal savior and God can turn it all around. I was wondering why you were taking things to heart, now I see. I ended up being overwhelmed by the anger from the Mylotters. I was thinking why are so many people so angry with me. I was simply attempting to make a point. I am not God, I am not even running for the presidency, so what I say should not be so upsetting to people. If they really believe it is not true, why are they so upset about it. If it is not true, then it is just my opinion.

As long as it is pleasing to God, my son can be whatever he wants to be.

Right on!! All parents should be like you. www.pflag.org

A gay man is not a she. He is still a man. God this pisses the crap out of me. Gay men are MEN. Gay women are WOMEN. What kind of idiocy is this? Furthermore, if your son was gay, he could still be the father of a kid with a surrogate. I think the question you need to ask yourself is do you wnt your kid to be happy, or are you just selfish.

No, you need an education. Gay men are men. Gay women are women. He does not become she when we find they are attracted to their own gender. I am greatly insulted when you insinuate that my son is less than a man because he wants to spend his life with another man. So, yeah, it angers me. You are insulting my child. Think on that for a minute and educate yourself

I know what you mean but I am just answering his post honestly. Will I get hurt if my ONLY son is gay? If all my life I know I am raising a son and I am made to believe that I do have a son who is straight, then how would I feel? Will I be happy at the very first moment he will come out? I don't need to be lectured whether they are gay women or gay men since I myself know that gays are of different type. I am only focusing on the question if "will i get hurt if my only son is a girl?" so therefore, the HE i used to raise as a HE eventually turns to a SHE. I even asked my hubby how he will react if we ever get an only son and he said he'll be sad and disappointed but regardless of that, he is still our son but it will take time for us to accept that fact that he is gay or a girl already. Please try to be more objective in understanding people's comment. We are entitled to our own emotions and opinions too. Won't I want my son to be happy? Who doesn't? But give us time to accept it too. I haven;t experienced it yet but if you will ask me as a parent, I would surely get disappointed and sad but that doesn't mean that I would disown him or curse him or want him to be sad all his life but aren't parents entitled to such emotions too? I hope I've made myself clear.

Then you don't love your child. A parent's love is unconditional. Apparently your love isn't love at all. You wont respond. don't know why i waste my breath.

Sexuality does not change. I could not become gay any more than my son could become straight. It's bioloical. And it's not wrong. It would be wrong for them to lie to themselves and others and try to marry a person of the opposite gender. That is hurtful to all concerned.