do you agree with the same "gender" relationships.?

Well, the only thing is to let them live their lives. It's a matter of choice. They are no different from us; some of them are actually very nice people.

People dont choose the gender they are attracted too, thats the way they are born. Do you really think someone would choose to be ridiculed for falling for someone of the same gender if they felt they had a choice. People are attracted to whoever they are attracted to and nobody(even themselves) can change that! Tianna

Some people will say that it is not the choice of the individual, that it is a birth defect. I can't be sure whether I can believe that, but I can't take it out of my consideration. I do think that it is wrong but to each their own, and it doesn't bother me to see it. I had a few gay friends before I moved out of the county and lost contact with them. Have a Great day.

yeah me too i hate seeing that kind of relationship but what can i do i cant control their feelings.....and their just happy being that,,,just dont mind them anymore hehe....how r u bydway? wat po cp nmber u, pwedeng mkipgtxfrend?

I have many gay and lesbian friends. I do not judge them for the decisions they have made in their life. (That's is between them and God) Although, I do feel that a man was made to be with a woman (hence the equipment given to each...notice how they just "seem" to go together?) I am a Christian and the Bible talks about homosexuals. But, I do have friends that are gay. They come to my house with their girlfriends or boyfriends. We sit and eat together and laugh together. They are not judged by me. I prefer not to see them kiss and things like that...but they respect my wishes on that. One thing I do know, one lesbian friend of mine is with a woman that treats her better than any man ever has. They love each other and compliment each other. The are both good and failthful to each other. That is a relationship that I always wanted...except I wanted to get those things from a man...(okay, so I am still waiting on that one...but I'm NOT giving up...:)

if they love each other, we cannot stop them, the only thing that we can do is support them

My thought would be to ask you, why do you even care who is with who? I'm not being mean, I really would like to know why you even care about this issue? Why does it bother you even enough to write about it? I would love to hear one intelligent reason why same gender relationships is even an issue with anyone?

I was also in your side. I don't think that it is right to have a relationship on the same gender but as they say its free will though they should also look at the purpose of thier life why they are here on earth. I am really against it but I still don't care what they wanted to do in thier life besides it thiers and not mine.

[b]I don't blame them. It must been hard living their life like that. Scorned by the society. It's like they were born in the wrong body. I tried to understand them the best that i could. I have friend like them and they told me that their situation is really hard. Everything they do is wrong to others. I do agree with you that it's really wrong if i see two men and women engaged in a relationship.[/b]

For me, it is ok that both gender will have the same relationship.. I don't care whether they have the same gender and it looks bad to the eyes of other people.. And besides that what makes them happy so why should I disagree with them... I have known many people who have a relationship, and I don't think that there is problem with that.. I think the reason why most people don't like to see same gender having a relationship it is because of what the church teach to the people... I know that the church disagree to this kind of relationship because accordingly, man is for woman and woman is for man... For me, there would be no problem if same sexes are holding hands, kissing, making love or whatever they will do for as long as they don't hurt other people.. Gays and lesbian have the right to be happy and to feel love and besides they are still human.. As what the bible said, all of God are created in his image and likeness.. So, when we don;t accept those people who are lesbian and gays then it only means that you don't accept God.. I think the society are very cruel because in all of the things that we do, in all the decisions that we make, and even the person who we should love, we always need to think what the society says, on what the society accepts.. I think it is in the principle and philosophy of that person on how he/she view life.. If you love that person then go for it, don't think what people said and besides the society is always there and even you follow what they want, still it will not change... It will always be the same... So, for me same sexes are accepted to have a relationship and to get married.. this is only my views and opinions.. hope you don't get mad with what I've said...

I don't against this kind of relationship, but i don't do it. I think it's crazy for me, maybe my mind is too close, i consider one man should have duty, and we answer for my doing.

I almost skipped over this discussion because I am a lesbian, but then I decided that you wmight want a response from someone who is gay. Of course I agree with them. I haven't been ridiculed or made fun of because of my choice. I do know that there are people that don't agree with it and that is okay. Everyone has their own opinion and as much as we want to be accepted, we do have to remember that not everyone will ever accept us. I am lucky enough that my family accepts it and that all of my coworkers accept me for who I am and not who I love.

i think that people who think like that should first feel what we feel...let's say if you are also like us(bisexuals or gay) what would you feel?

No,I do not. It is true people could be attracted naturally to one another,but in the most interesting of cases I have seen,myself inclusive,it has been solely for friendship.There are tens of thousands ways by which we can help one another,so when similar genders meet,they are only out to socialize,and help one another.to carry such an affair further than socialization is a taboo in many societies. People who engage in such relationship must be ready to face the consequences.they would need to contend with series attitude,STDs,emotional disturbances,and the society at large.The disadvantages will definitely outweigh the merits.

Well I can tolerate them together. It seems they are growing in numbers as the society slowly accepts that there is such a relationship and they pose no harm to society at all. Although there are some who still despise this thing happening but these kind of relationship existed even before although not openly but they exist already since time immemorial so I guess there's nothing wrong with these as long as they don't bother me its fine with me.

i've got friends who are in such relationships. to me it's really just a relationship. i see no difference between a homosexual and a heterosexual relationship. it's between two individuals who decide that they feel good together. i don't really care about what others think. would they offer some help if i'm sad because i did the 'right' thing? would they even give a damn if i feel heart broken giving up on my loved one because they hate to see us together? the answer is definitely a big NO so why should i care?

NOPE. In the beginning, God created Adam and Eve, not Madam nor Steve :D. God created man in His own image, in the image of God he created him, male and female He created them... :)

I'm sorry but living in a conservative society such as that of America is not an easy thing...but I'm glad that things are changing little by little, but at least they are changing...California joining Massachusetts, but then there's that chance that the conservative vote will put it at risk...I just don't know what's up with people and not wanting any change in this world...people need to stop hating, and start loving...people say that they are able to love, I just don't believe them...if they were capable of loving they would let others just be.

Whether we agree with homosexuality or not does not make a difference. It is still going to exist. For example, some people do not believe in interracial relationships but they still exist. Some people do not believe that black people should have rights and so on. The point I am trying to make is some people arent intelligent enough to have this conversation. A lot of people will be offended by other people's opinions or ignorances and no one thinks that they are wrong in this situation. I am by no means condoning this because personally I don't agree with it, but in the end who am I to speak out against it? I don't judge anyone according to their lifestyle because I wouldn't want anyone judging me according to my appearance, etc.

Actually relationship of the same gender doesn't shocked me. I've known a lot of them. Even my friends did that. But I think falling in love with the same gender was not a big deal in the world today so why should I disagree.However, that's their choice.