relationship between husband and wife
By wangjian
@wangjian (15)
China
June 26, 2008 8:16pm CST
In our life, who do you think is very important to you?
your mather? your father? your friend? your wife?
Yes, I think the important person is your wife.Because you will get along with her the most time.
So having a good relationship to your wife is important.If you don't love your wife, why did you marry her? As you have be couple,you mustbe love her very much.Love her, take care of her,and then you can get pleasuer from that.In return, your wife will love you very much.In this way,you can have a happy life!
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14 responses
@BINETTIRAFFAELE (68)
• Italy
27 Jun 08
love is unique
it is very difficult to compare!
Hello!
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@coolrockanuj (10)
• India
27 Jun 08
in my opinion each and every relaton has a great importance of its own. and i believe that husband wife relationship is much important for a person because this is the only relationship which a person carries all over till the end of life. as in this special voyage or journey called "life" a person lost all his friend, colleagues, parents, children... but only one person remain with him/her i.e. "life partner" till the end of life, and the thing which make them stick together is LOVE. LOVE is the main source of any relationship. so, you are undoubtly right buddy!!!!!
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Well I hate to compare loved ones. It really depends, at one time in my life it was my mother, then my husband, and now it is my children. Later it will be my husband again, my mother and father will always be important to me, as will my children, but my husband is the one that I will grow old with.
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@rajyogi7 (47)
• India
28 Jun 08
Sorry my dear friend, In my view, Mother's love is a great thing in this world. Nothing can stand in front of this love or compared with it!!. Do you really enjoy your mother's love and affection in your life?! The reason is in your discussion. Mother's love demands nothing. But wife's love demands a return love. But one another thing is here. TRUE FRIENDSHIP!!! That is also equal to mother's love because it demands nothing in return. You will feel it in your life many times. OK!! That's it!!my dear friend!!!
Jacob, India.
@bubbles89 (122)
• United States
30 Jun 08
Hi Wangjian,
For me God is first and most important in my life. Without him I would be nothing and with him all things are possible. But after him I would say my husband. I love him dearly and although we have children I put him first because our children are going to grow up and leave our home but we will be together forever so it's really important for us to spend quality time with each other and nurture our marriage. Now that doesn't mean that we don't have time for our kids because we do. We love them very much but we put each other first because we love each other.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
29 Jun 08
I think think that wives and husbands need to put eachother first, beore the rest o the people in the world. In family situations parents need to put their children first, and take care of the entire amily AND EACHOTHER beore dealing with the needs of the outside world.
@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
27 Jun 08
Relationship between husband and wife is very important, if they have love, good understanding and trust only then life will go smoothly, I will completely agree with you, once you get married for husband wife is important and for wife husband is important others come in second stage. How many of them will follow this? Hardly any...I am happy with my life because both of us have good understand and trust , my husband loves me so much and he gives importance to me first..
@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
27 Jun 08
I believe the first person you should have a loving relationship with is you yourself. Everything else stems from having a healthy self-respect and a genuine love for one's own person. Once you have that (and I believe there are very few people who actually get there), then you can love practically everybody and nobody.
@thing17 (106)
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27 Jun 08
I think everybody is important. You can have a good relationship with all of them. It is only a matter of how would you handle each relationship to continue a good relationship you have started.
One more thing, for example to your mother or father, if you will not continue your good relationship with them, someday you will become parents also and how would you feel if your son/daughter when the time they've married and all of a sudden he/she, a change happen, a good relationship to you of your son/daughter little by little gone away. Think of it...
I believe in every relationship there's a better way of handling it for not loosing it. Pray and ask the Lord for help in your every relationship. God Bless!
@anndocs (249)
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27 Jun 08
Yeah I agree with you.
Next in God, should be your spouse then your children.
Then everything will follow. It's better to know whos' or what are priority so that when you struggle you will know who's first.
Have bless day ahead!
@MrsFairWells (921)
• Turkey
27 Jun 08
Well, the bible to tells us that once we get married we leave our mother and father and stick close to out spouse (obviously not in those exact words of course).
I think that once a person is married their spouse should take presidence over all else (except above the creator). This doesn't mean that we should have no relationship with our family members but it does mean that their feelings and wants should not be put above our spouses. Great post by the way...
@franze_jeanne (116)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
love relationship is what the Lord wants to have with us, that's why He created the family, the husband and the wife, and all the people to demonstrate the love that He has for us...In the same way, we have to demonstrate that love by loving one another...even God commanded us to love our enemy...In husband-wife relationship (also in the family), the husband should love and respect his wife, and the wife should submit to her husband...the parents should not embitter their children for they will become discouraged...and the children should obey their parents... :)