It shamed me to adimit that thing

China
June 26, 2008 11:33pm CST
It's a long time before,When I was a young girl,I have met a matter which shamed me today ,when I was a pupil,oneday I come school early ,I opened the door of the classroom,at this moment,I found there was a guy who was turning over my bags, I thought he must be stealing something,and I could not found my pen anywhere!so I asked him to compensate my pen ,and next I got a new pen! several days later,I discovered my pen in somewhere!It shamed me,still today!
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6 responses
fwidman
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
27 Jun 08
It sounds like you made a very honest mistake that most people would have made in your place. You have nothing to be ashamed of :)
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angel1001
@angel1001 (113)
• China
28 Jun 08
I think I am not careful enough,but I am an honest man,and people in my place are honest too.I think !we must be careful to do anything,to say any word,so do I,and so do you!am I right?or misunderstanding your meanings?after all, my enligh is very poor!
fwidman
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
28 Jun 08
Your understanding is fine :) Yes, most people do try their best to be careful, but every now and then we make mistakes. I am sure, if things were reversed, that person would have made the same mistake and asked you to replace their item.
angel1001
@angel1001 (113)
• China
28 Jun 08
haha, you must be a humorous person!
ellie333
@ellie333 (21016)
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27 Jun 08
He shouldn't have been rummaging through your bags so at the time you had every right to insist on a new pen if your couldn't be found, I wouldn't be ashamed I would just think that he learned a lesson not to go through your bags again eh! Ellie :D
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angel1001
@angel1001 (113)
• China
28 Jun 08
You are rihgt,he should't rummage my bags,but I also made a big mistake!I should be careful to find my pen!I wronged him!we all made mistakes!
lilaclady
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
27 Jun 08
I call that an honest mistake, nothing to be ashamed about, we all make mistakes, if you learnt the lesson to be more careful in the future, which I think you have if your still thinking about it, then it is all ok...
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angel1001
@angel1001 (113)
• China
28 Jun 08
You must be tolerance,I like what your said,I will be careful in the future,thank you!
danishcanadian
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
28 Jun 08
I think it shames you today because you did not repet of it then. What stopped you then, if anything, from apologizing to the man who compensated you for a pen that he did not steal?
angel1001
@angel1001 (113)
• China
28 Jun 08
right!I don't repet of it now,because I can't find him and apologizing to him!I really really want apologize to him,who can give me this choice!who konws where he is!
mialei23
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
There's nothing to ashame of. You didn't meant it, it's a matter of mistakes. It will be ashame if you really mean to accused him stealing without an intentions. It's fine you don't need to worry for that, no ones perfect indeed every people are making some mistakes unintentionally.Thanks for the post!
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Muelitz
@Muelitz (1592)
• Canada
27 Jun 08
Who could blame you for thinking that the guy stole your pen. He was opening you bag isn't he? But when you realized that you did not take you pen and it was you who misplaced it, you should have approached the guy and apologized. If you did just that then you would not have this matter give you a heavy heart.
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