Cheating and Revenge
By BloomerBeak
@BloomerBeak (106)
Philippines
June 27, 2008 12:57am CST
I'm just thinking about my Brother's situation and then asked myself about this question.
If you are married, and you've learned your spouse cheated, will you also cheat as your revenge to your spouse? I mean, you're not that kind of person, but to get even with what your spouse has done to you, you will also cheat. By that way you spouse will feel that same pain he/she have caused.
But is it really right for you to also cheat? What do you think?
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6 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
27 Jun 08
I have seen through my fiance's brother's predicament that cheating is a very tough situation. I even knew this prior to this finding, but have seen first hand how much it hurts people. My fiance's brother has a child, and is now fighting for custody over him because his fiance cheated on him.
Cheating to get even is only going down to their level and is also immoral and against biblical laws. I would never cheat on my fiance and would never think of it myself. I know a lot of people say that, but then again you must know me to know that I mean it. Have a great day
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@BloomerBeak (106)
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
yes..immoral. I really wonder why people can cheat.
thanks for the response.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
27 Jun 08
I do not know why people can cheat, I know that my conscience would get the best of me and I would definitely not go through with cheating in any way. It's wrong, and I would also tell my fiance. Have a Great day!
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
27 Jun 08
No I would not cheat just because my spouse has cheated.
I probably at that point of time would be so down, that I would be comprehending just what caused this to happen, to repair the situation or break it up if there seems to be no other option.
Revenge only gets things worse. Best principles adopted in any revenge situations are forgive and forget or if not possible disconnect and forget.
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@BloomerBeak (106)
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
revenge will really make things worse. plus, more people will be hurt. *sigh
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
You can get the satisfaction of revenge but in reality it looks like your also cheating on yourself. You are dwelling more on anger that will just make things worse. I don't think it is the right way to get revenge. For a guy like me if my girl cheats on me I can do it but I chose not to anymore. I'll just leave her and find my own happiness rather than making a fuss about the situation.
@BloomerBeak (106)
• Philippines
1 Jul 08
i like your response. i believe you definitely hit the point. even though one just cheated for the sake of revenge, it will just all return to him/her.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
27 Jun 08
Nope, not at all, cheating is not 4 me. Even if my husband cheated on me, i would never do the same for revenge's sake. I dont belive in revege either, and yeah, that pain is immense. And well after all the best revenge would probably be to just let him go. coz if he can cheat once, he can cheat again.
@blandz0416 (99)
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
Revenge is sweet. But it doesn't mean u have to do what he did to you. Improve yourself until he will realize ur still the woman he once love and showered with flowers and kisses. Show him that he is the loser not you for what he done.
@m18j7crystal (184)
•
27 Jun 08
Cheating is not my cup of tea...
If ever my husband would go cheating, then be it...The least I could do is to ask him what made him so...
Taking revenge would just make things complicated...
@BloomerBeak (106)
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
ask him, indeed. What makes him cheat? Am i not good enough for him? Confrontation is the best way to solve things between a husband and a wife, don't you think?
