a good listener makes you agood speaker!!
By alouconui
@alouconui (120)
Philippines
June 27, 2008 1:20am CST
If you are a good listener you are indeed a good speaker. Simply because as you listen to other peoples opinion you will learne some ideas thru them. And for that ideas you get you can create another ideas for to share and for that you will do learn from each others. It also sometimes create or land into an arguments but it is just natural. Because from there you will try to balance yourself into a certain situation. In order someone be a good speaker or conversationlist, one must first be a good listener. IT always come in two. One can not stands without the others. What can you say about it. I guessed I am right!!
2 responses
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
27 Jun 08
I agree with you hundred percent. When you listen to other people then not only do you get to learn many things but you also learn the quality of patience.It is not neccessary that a good listener becomes a good speaker but a good listener becomes humble and tolerant of other peoples views.He does not get into arguments because he usually reflects on what the other person has said and if he agrees then all the better. If not then he will quietly walk away as simply arguing for the sake of argument is not only a waste of time but also a waste of energy.
@alouconui (120)
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
Thanx for the respond veejay. Have a nice and wonderful weekend!
@buzzmaker (630)
• India
10 Jul 08
Very well said!
By listening you can get a whole lot of 'content' and think upon it, digest it, draw conclusions, and come up with your own views. This would help one become a good speaker. Since you have listened to a lot of people over a specific subject you will know what majority people already think about a particular topic and your own view has already taken it all into consideration.
I completely agree with you!
