i want my grand mother back!!! / myLot

Singapore

June 27, 2008 1:32am CST

i went to a wedding yesterday... my cousin's wedding and it was there where i know that my grandmother is dying. i said before that she is really ill... and she cannot eat because every time she swallows she will trigger her headache... and she went to the wedding... in a wheelchair... it was the first time i have seen her in a wheelchair... and that really hits home that she is really sick. and i dare not go near her the whole night!! and so i was really regret not doing so.. i am seeing my grand monther today... hope she forgives me..

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2 responses

danishcanadian

@danishcanadian (28953)

• Canada

28 Jun 08

I remember when my grandparents were in that condition. There was o way I could NOT go near them, because I knew I needed to ejoy them while I still had them in my life. There would be plenty of time to "aoid" them after they die. I am glad that you realized this, and that you will be seeing her again today.

raclie

@raclie (1732)

• Singapore

28 Jun 08

well... i have never been close to my parents, as there is a language barrier... and so i am just there to just talk to her with the limited chinese i have...

raclie

@raclie (1732)

• Singapore

30 Jun 08

ok, thanks... she is better now...

Patsie Hatley

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

29 Jun 08

raclie she loves you and she will always forgive you as she is your grandmother. Its so hard seeing someone you love'and know that she is dying. I hope perhaps the doctors can help her and make her well again. pray for her and I will pray too.they say prayers do help; so let us try.

raclie

@raclie (1732)

• Singapore

29 Jun 08

i hope so... my grandmother said it was the maid who cursed her and placed black magic on her... i hope she did not... or i will hunt her down like a dog... the doctors cannot do anything... but the prayers worked... she is a bit better now...