do any one has to be married?

@dwiwin (101)
Indonesia
June 27, 2008 3:35am CST
hi friends, im not young anymore and still single. is it normal? Whats your opinion about single woman? Because sometimes I think I have to find a husband as soon as possible but in another time I forget about my status.
7 responses
@mandykaren (2040)
10 Jul 08
well this will make you feel better lool i am older then you and i am single :))) I don't let it bother me, i just enjoy life as much as I can and i can because i am single.. I not be with just any man just because I feel I should be married.. Better to be single then to be with a man you are not happy with. So just get out and have fun.. You will meet someone when you least expect it anyway.. NO, you do not have to be married, you can just go with long relationships first and have fun hehe.. o and some married people would think we are lucky to not be trapped in a bad marriage.
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
Single and married women are normal people. Ur a very normal person even if u choose to be single for the rest of your life. So don't worry about that and your not alone, there are lots of single women out there who are successful and happy with their singleness... just stay beautiful in and out and u will be more successful compare to some married women.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
27 Jun 08
If you think that you need a husband because you feel lonely and need someone around then get married. If not and are only thinking about it because someone or something makes you think about it the dont. In today's complicated and materialistic life the expectations of a married life are more and moresoever the stresses and strains of daily life itself are so many that it is very easy for these to become impediments in a marriage which may lead to the breaking up of the marriage which is very painful. i amnot trying to dissuade you form marrying , I am only giving you the pros and cons. There are som amny positives of being married , the simplest one being the joy of having a family of your own, kids and the caring of your family.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
27 Jun 08
At younger age, staying single and enjoying life as it is is excitinga nd when time passes on and you feel you need soemone to accompany you in all modes of your life, you may slowly try to understand the needs of life and maybe you will be desperate in need of husband at taht time for sure
• Japan
28 Jun 08
Hello! It's ok to be single, as long as you are happy. Getting married without love is like hitting your own head with a big stone! Don't be in a hurry. Love will always find a way........as of now, collect more friends here in myLot! I can be one of your collection............
@Muelitz (1592)
• Canada
27 Jun 08
Yes it is normal to be single or be single parent especially i this modern world. There is nothing wrong with that. But on factor that may be a problem is the culture you were brought up.
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
27 Jun 08
hi, well... i will rather be old and unharried as compared to being young, married and miserable... i just think i will wait for my true love... lol...