betrayal of a friend?!?!
By ettenaej
@ettenaej (39)
Philippines
June 27, 2008 6:58am CST
will you forgive a friend who try to steal your boyfriend and still pretending that you two are sisters??!? i had this friend a really close friend during college and we two like sisters. we had shared alot of good times and even bad moments in our life. until she met my bf. at first it seems that she doesn't like my bf for a reason that i dont know him that well yet and that we start our relationship long distance. then i found out that she got a thing to my bf and she plan to steal it from me. will you forgive a friend like that?!?!?
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6 responses
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
11 Sep 10
Hi, ettenaej. I would eventually forgive her, but I will never forget what she has done to me. This is straight up mean and trifling! That is how some friends are. They pretend to hate someone that you are close to, but all the while they have the hots for this person. That is exactly why guys that I may like should never be too close to my friends at all. If she is planning on stealing your boyfriend from you, she is not a good friend at all.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
3 Jul 08
i did have a best friend in high school, but i made one big mistake inrtoduced her to her now husband. we did heaps together, until she ditched us for him. that was all of us at school, to not just me. we in our last yr, and she started to spend more time with him than us, it was worse jsut before exams were going to start. she'd leave class early, and then nearly missed one exam cause of him. her 18 th b day, my ex and i got her some mixed dinks. friends were rouind at her place later that day, and said it was up on top of the cardboard and she wasn't alowed to have any. then they left a few months after that, i got a call from another friend early in the saying ex b.f was preganant and then she got married in the may and they still swear that i was sent an invertation. then when we're at a 21st for a friend i was good enough to talk to cause i was preganant and so was she, so friendship build again. then we got her a milking job and just over 12 month on she was preganat again and had lost the plot a bit in my view. she had a go at me over my son (whose got learning problems) i've not spoken to her since then expect to be polite and i don't even have the time of day for her husband.
you will work it out on what you want to do, there's load more people you can be friends with, it's just real sorry when things happend after being frined for a number of yrs.
@baleleng2008 (917)
• United States
30 Jun 08
It deoends in the situation.I think first of all I dont jump into conclusion without knowing the whole story.So I have to ask my bf first and then I ask my friend too.Then its up to you who you gonna belive and who really tell the truth.Then you decide by then if you still wanna be friend with her or not anymore.Goodlcuk!
@msedge (4011)
• United States
3 Jul 08
I may can forgive her but i will never trust nor get along with her anymore.Anyway, your boyfriend chose you so she had lose you as a friend and she didn't win the heart of the man she likes.That would be good for her.I am sure she was hurt about that but she should learn from her mistakes.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Forgiveness project one as a god..he is equal to god!Well not our hurt, but the other one who we forgived. Just a simple but tough logic..dont expect anything..you can easily forgive any one for their mistakes.