whn its necessary to get married??
By durgaray
@durgaray (22)
June 27, 2008 7:53am CST
i m confused.which is the correct time to get married.its different for boys n gls.i have seen in my village many gls of my age are married.where as ijn town gls of my age are still enjoying freedom of life.so is the decission of their parents wholive in villages correct??i am interested to know the actual things.give some response
4 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
30 Jun 08
I don't think there is a necessary time to get married. I mean we all get married at different times and need to take time to grow and be the person we need to be in order to be in a marriage.
@chitraray1 (17)
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30 Jul 08
so as u said fnd we should get married at any age.wht abt very old age ??if u get all the knowledge at teen age thn is it the correct time??some1 above said its not necessary to get married.how long its justified???
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
28 Jun 08
It is never "necessary" to get married. Marriage is a choice, not a requirement. Everyone has difference dreams and goals for their lives, and not all of them include marriage.
But at the same time, marriage isn't the end of the "freedom of life". I'm married and I'm no less free than I was before. Marriage doesn't have to mean "settling" and having "a family". I for one am not going to have children and being married will never hold me back from what I want to do in life.
@chitraray1 (17)
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30 Jul 08
fnd you may b correct to some extent.but situation,place n time governs this idea.in foreign ppl dont have tht notion wht ppl in India have.bt we have family with strong relational n cultural bunds.which we think as our duty n pleasure.still for some ppl in my country its a boon n for some its a bourden...
@chej18 (915)
• United States
27 Jun 08
In Philippine marriage in very young age still happen.I am talking about the minor age.With the consent of the parent they are getting married to the judge.That mean they are just married but after they become adult they still need to get married.
In some other person getting married is just a paper and just dont get marry.Some people get amrried late becouse they want to follow thier dreams and want to be succesful w/ thier career and get marry later.
So what my point is that,there is such right age to get married.I think the most reasonable idea is if you find someone you love so deeply,and you cannot be w/out her/him,you want to be w/ her forever.That you shared your love and he/she recieved.I think that is enough reason to the person to get married.Have nice day!
Greetings from Che!
@chitraray1 (17)
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27 Jun 08
see fnd in our country its fixed tht gls who r more thn 18 yrs old cAN get married.but thing is tht is tht age is sufficient or correct to get married or not i cant say.ppl living in villages ,not only villages also in towns consider gls as borden ,thy always b in tension to give her marry.its true to maximum parents but not for all. parents r thr who give equal empahsis on boy n gl.thy do all the same for a gl wht thy do for a bot.sometimes situation n environment force parents to think differently.
