Have you observed people change with time???

It's just natural that everyone "puts on their best face" when they start a relationship. It's only after you spend some long time with your mate that you both start to relax and be more the person you truly are most of the time, and yes somethings do change, but if the relationship is meant to stay and work for both of you, you each will understand and accept these "perceived" changes, and work on the relationship together. With any relationship that is "starting to go bad" you each will go on the defensive and act accordingly to protect yourself, and this can be perceived as being someone totally different from the person you started the relationship with. So there is a lot to consider here, your feelings, actions, reactions, and your partners as well.

Hi. I have seen people behave differently at different times and in different situation. Can't say what make them change themselves. Although all the changes that I have seen are not bad but most of them are. I really miss a friend of mine who now a days is not ready to even give me a look.

Yes all the time. People get confortable. People get older. People mature. Things happen and inveatably change people. Things don't necessary fall apart but you have to be able to grow togheter. Know the person before you make a life time commitment to them. Like my husband and I we take each other for granted becuase we have become confortable with eachother. Because we have come to expect certain things from one another. There are a few unspoken things that I just do for him as he does for me. Unspoken meaning - I do them with out him having to ask. For instance if I see he needs some thing to drink and I am getting up I get it for him. Its some thing that he should say think you for but he doesn't because again its some thing that he has come to expect. Not saying he should but back to the comfort thing. Yes people are inveatably going to change. That should be a good thing.

I think people do change with time, Some for the better some for the worse. We can only control ourselves however, and how we react to them. I think we need to be as aware of ourselves as posssible so we can be as good as we can be.