we know love hurts but still we fall for it

love hurts - it really does
@lovenluck (1068)
India
June 27, 2008 11:15pm CST
Everyone knows that it hurts,it pain but still we manage to get ourself into this sh*t hole. Every time i abstain from it,there is this force pulling me towards it. How do we possibly avoid it. I want to stay away from it i want to stay happy but This poor heart falls it every now and then.
9 responses
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
You cannot stop falling in love. It's normal. But what you can do is to control your feelings. Consider the person you're falling for. Are you compatible with him? Does he know you? Does he feel the same way? Does he care? These are the things you need to question yourself, and more. It's true we can't help falling, but you can be smart in choosing.
@lovenluck (1068)
• India
28 Jun 08
nice one yup can't control falling in love but can be smart choosing it.
@niitesh (1653)
• India
30 Jun 08
this is what life is all about, WE do what we know what we should not. but love is necessary in life and without it life is meaning less.The one thing which gives a purpose of living is love and if even this could be avoided no point living. We become machines if we could control our heart and emotions. it's is this which makes us above machines
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
i dont think we can ever say and be certain that there are ways to avoid love.. the more you avoid it, the more you will be lured into it... :D just be careful when you do.. loving does not only mean heartaches... it also means we can be very happy.
@niitesh (1653)
• India
30 Jun 08
this is what life is all about, WE do what we know what we should not. but love is necessary in life and without it life is meaning less.The one thing which gives a purpose of living is love and if even this could be avoided no point living. We become machines if we could control our heart and emotions. it's is this which makes us above machines
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
hi lovenluck. thats life, if we love we always get hurt, but inspite of that we still keep on loving. but we are hurt in order to make us strong. thanks
@igotpaid (20)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
"Love hurts" a title o f a song..hhmmm.. i do agree that love hurts, but then love wouldn't be love without it. love is a mix of happiness and sadness.. you could be a lot happier if love is in you! belive me! after every painful scenarios, happiness would always overflow if love is there to rescue you.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
28 Jun 08
Life is full of extremes and we do not know the meaning of each extreme till we undestand the opposite of it. We will not know what happiness is all about till we know what being hurt and in pain is about.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
28 Jun 08
yes lvenluck. we do not do it willingly. it just happens. well one can not be a professional lover like a killer on a prawl and determined that i will fall in love twice or thrice today. it is a feeling which generates some how , is given adequate positive things to develop and grow,and one fine morning you feel you are entangled..so deeply that you do not know the way out!!!
@jag003 (127)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
You can never truly stay away from love, and whenever you try finding it that's when it's aloof then just when you're about to give up love eventually finds its way to your door steps, it's crazy, but that's just one way to describe love...