Arranged marriage?..but..i have my own heart!..

I don't like arranged marriage. Arranged marriage seems to be suitable for parents,but not for me.They will consider more, the house,the money,the job,the character...and so on,they are realistic. Sometimes i think if i obey,i will not lead a hard life,i mean,work hard to earn money,it refers the financial base.But we will live with another person for so many years,i always think the character of the person is the most important thing in marriage.I can't live with a so-called good person with quarrel and estrangement everyday.

Let me see if I can help you with this: Hmm... I agree that even though if two people are arranged and set to be married, for as long as they really like each other, for sure love will follow. But I always go for true love or love at first sight. (Something like that). Follow whats inside you. How you feel. If you need to break some customs just for the sake of love, then go for it. For as long as your commitment to that person is strong and all-knowing, then do it. After all, Love is Everlasting!

If you already love someone than no do not give up and go as your heart desires. If you do not love someone, then there is nothing wrong in an arranged marriage as you will slowly love your partner.