Anyone have any experiences with a "wicked stepmother"?

Well my suggestion is next time you see the wicked step mother let your fist do the talking. Some people need a good beat down. Maybe she'll think twice before she tries to interfere with the relationship of you and your daughter again. Just a joke, please don't beat that woman up. You should have a sit down with her, your daughter and your daughter's father and discuss this issue. You all have to get along for the sake of your daughter cause like it or not you're all in this together. If this doesn't work, refer to my first suggestion.

Let me tell you, being a stepmother is the most difficult and thankless task in the world. I've been one for 30 years. I was only 25 when I took on 4 stepchildren, the oldest of which was 15. I had no clue how to parent teenagers. My husband was no help. He'd bring the kids over and then leave it to me to see that they were entertained and fed. His ex ran down everything I did. I bought the kids decent clothes, and she returned them to the store for the money. She didn't make them go to school, and that broke my heart. Bottom line, the stepchild/stepparent situation is never easy. You have to make the best of it no matter what happens for the sake of the children. My stepson's daughter dresses like that, too, but it's her mother who's letting her do it, and her father can't do anything about it.