what would you do if you love someone very much but
By toogle
@toogle (344)
India
June 28, 2008 2:01pm CST
what would you do if you love someone very much but he/she do not even want to talk to you. he/she do not want to talk. do not want see your face and do not even want to talk to you on phone.
what would you do to convince him/her that you love him/her very much.
well i must tell you all one thing. i am in the same condition so tell me what should i do.
4 responses
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
29 Jun 08
You must ask yourself one question: What do you love about a person who treats you so badly?
Were you in a relationship with this person and it went bad? If so, you have to think hard about the reason it went bad. If it was something that was not very important, then that other person is too petty and will never be happy in any relationship.
If you've done nothing wrong, then that person has decided, for one reason or another, that they don't want you in their life, and you MUST move on. You simply cannot truly love a person who treats you so badly! It is not love that you feel in a case like that. It is need.
I know how you are hurting! I've been there. I loved my first husband very much. He didn't ignore me, but he cheated on me, was abusive to me, lied to me, etc. I tried to figure out why he did this and KNEW it was not me. I had to make him leave before I went insane! I cried when he was leaving and when he asked me "Are you sure this is what you want?" and I said "Yes" crying the whole time. I'm glad I did, because "Mr. Right" came along and I'm very, very happy now.
Good luck to you. I wish you the best and much future happiness.
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
30 Jun 08
That is quite normal. When you love someone very much, it is almost impossible to stop thinking about them all the time.
The key right now is to keep yourself busy, mentally and physically. The busier you are, the sooner you will start to feel better.
With me, I kept very busy at work and did a lot of gardening at home. I cleaned my house, rearranged the furniture, painted the walls, etc. I cooked a lot! I worked on many craft projects... anything that would keep my mind and body as busy as possible. It really does help to ease the pain some and to begin the healing process. You need to keep very busy.
Honestly, you WILL feel better in time. It will hurt less and less all the time. You may not feel it for awhile, but you will get over this. One person who hurts you so badly is not worth anything and you will see this in time.
Time is your best friend right now... it WILL heal your pain! It does every time in every situation. Please keep that in mind... you will feel better and be able to get on with your life!
Don't give in to depression; that's the worst thing you can do. Do whatever it takes to cheer yourself up... whatever makes you happy, make sure that is in your life. If it's music, play music. If it's funny movies, watch funny movies. If it's a pet, play with your pet a lot. I hope you get my point.
I feel for you and understand your pain; but I'm here to let you know that you WILL get over this. Just give it time and keep yourself busy!
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
29 Jun 08
I'd would be upset, sure. But I would try to figure out what went wrong. I'd analyze the situation and try to find some reasoning. Did they ignore you out of the blue? Or did something happen to have them push you away like that? If I were you I'd have to start talking to that person to see where they're coming from.
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@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
1 Jul 08
call it pathetic. smack out of it girl/dude! Life's too short. Enjoy life. Embrace love. Only then can you find true love embracing you back.
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
I think the best thing to do is to be sincere when you approach that person. Don't be too cocky or to shy when you talk to that person because surely that person wouldn't like you at all. Also don't overdo it if you want to talk to that person sometimes a person might think that you are stalking her and that is not good. I'm wishing you all the luck.
