Dealing in a relationship, Pride or Love ?

@patzel88 (3310)
Philippines
June 28, 2008 6:40pm CST
if you love your partner you have to set behind your pride because in the relartionship we have also some sacrifices to deal with it. Many of the relationship are failure because of the pride, with the misunderstanding to each other without any comfrontation will tend to break up.
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4 responses
• Philippines
29 Jun 08
You are right. It is important to set aside pride especially when dealing with issues concerning our relationships. It has been proven that pride causes relationships to break. Love, humility and understanding are important ingredients to make a relationship work.
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
yes you are right to, if possible we want a perfect relationship.
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
29 Jun 08
I agree that there is a time to put pride aside and talk out your issues but i also believe you can only swallow your pride so long if your partner keeps being stupid then it is time to stand up for yourself.
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
in other way, if you know that you always give consideration for the mistakes of your partner and for being a martir, i guess you have to make a step a next move.
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@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
30 Jun 08
for me personally i will only take being made a fool of so many times before i will start feeling bad about myself, so to avoid this i will stand up and put an end to it. Loving someone that treats you badly over and over again is emotionally detrimental and can lead to serious self-esteem issues. When i was younger i thought if i loved someone enough it would work out as long as i tried to be what they wanted, but as i have gotten older i realized that if someone loves you they are not going to treat you badly or try to make you change who you are. And if they are doing that and refuse to change their behavior the best thing to do is end it even though it may be painful.
@ms_missy (23)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
i strongly agree with this because one can say that he/she is really inlove with someone if they can give up their pride.
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
some relationships surpass the difficulties because the pride is not the solution to happy living.
@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
2 Jul 08
You are right dear...absoultely right..In a relationship, we must learn to sacrifice..we must leave for each other...trust and truth are the structures of the relationships..pride is threat to relationship, pride must be eradicated in order to let true love bloom...:)
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
yes the true love will really bloom if we set aside our pride and open up the problems is the best to do.