is it true love or just lust ?

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Hi there, there's a story i would like to share with everyone. (: I got a friend who got to know a guy through online. And i realized that when I made a phone call to her. she told me that both of them have already called each other names such as dear and etc. and this guy is one of her cousin's friend. therefore, she seems to be rather secure with it. till one day, they managed to meet up at a location whereby people may walked past them. She was at first, accompanied by her group of friends but soon they left her with him alone. they were chit-chatting at one corner till the guy suggest to her to go over to his place. and the worst scenario has occurred. When i was told about it, I got a shocked and rather disappointed with my friend. whereby, this guy seems to be just toying her feelings and etc. It was led to a greater surprise when this friend of mine told me that in fact, she did forked out a sum of money for the guy when he told her that he needs a haircut, something to eat and etc. I couldn't imagine a close friend of mine who i spent days with her for 7 years and now, she actually been in such a scenario. should i really blame the guy or both parties were in the fault ?