It works both ways...
By devilsangel
@devilsangel (1817)
United States
June 29, 2008 1:33pm CST
Ok so over the last few days I've been hearing and reading a lot of folks complaining about their spouses or S.O. My thing is it goes both ways, a relationship is compromise and understanding. No one's perfect but sitting anc complaing about all the things he/she aren't doing isn't going to make it better. I bet that there are things that you do to anoy your partner, and even those that think they do everything, do you really? You want to be appreciated more, but what do you do to appreciate him/her? You want respect, but do you give it? There are always two sides to everything, so before you complain about the other person, think about what you're doing too.
2 responses
@devtina (371)
• India
29 Jun 08
i do agree with what you say .... it always takes 2 .....so thats how we could make things better in life by compromising and the best would be to do what u want the other to do for u in a relationship...if you want to be appreciated u do too...so i completely agree with u...nice to have brought up this discussion :) happy mylotting
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@padmameera (952)
• India
29 Jun 08
Hi
I think One should speak his/her spouse with polite. Just because you are married doesn't mean you can say what ever you want. Pay attention to your appearance and dress nicely. Spend time together alone. Even if you are busy and you have to schedule it, you have to do that. Make sure that you got some time to your spouse every day or atleast every week. Complement your spouse, if she/he had done some thing good.
Have some conversation with your spouse every day (can be during dinner) involving eye contact and listen when he/she talks. Respect each other's private space. If both of you do walking as an exercise then take the walk together or do any other exercise or hobby together. This will increase the intimacy between the spouses.
