Suicidal...Girlfriend!

Philippines
June 29, 2008 9:45pm CST
Hi guyz..what will you do if your girlfriend who always feel that she's not beautiful?..to the point that she always tell you that she want to commit suicide..that she wanna die because she's ugly!..i mean urghh..as if she would be beautiful if she died..lol
6 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
I think she so insecure and lack of self esteem. Maybe there's a reason why she feels this way. Try to bring out positive on her. Tell her life is so beautiful and problems are only temporary. Maybe it's part of getting your attention.
3 Jul 08
It's probably more than that. She probably feels unloved and not good enough. Not just ugly on the outside but the inside as well. I'm sure thats what she means. Sometimes I feel like that as well. I try not to dwell on it. I wouldn't want people to just like me because I'm beautiful! She has to think of it that way. Just tell her you love her for the person she is. That you think she is beautiful anyway, but even if she wasn't you would love her just as much because she has the most beautiful interior out of anyone you know.
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• United States
1 Jul 08
OMG! you are so bad!but anyways if you think she is serious i would get her some help. or you could just start telling her more that she is beautiful, and if it never helps then i would give her some space. if she is not happy with herself then how can she make you happy? obviously it is bothering you or else you wouldnt have started the discussion. just talk to her first.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
30 Jun 08
Well if i were you, i would try and get her to see some -one who can handle that sort of thing and if she refuses to seek help you keep talking to her say positive things to encourage her NOTE SOMETIMES YOU CAN ONLY DO SO MUCH. SHE NEEDS TO BUILD ON HER SELF
@msedge (4011)
• United States
1 Jul 08
I think she feel insecured about herself.Tell her to love and be proud of herself.What she have is God given so she must appreciate that.Anyway,its not the physical beauty is important.It is what you are inside thats matter most.
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@shlooper (309)
• United States
10 Jul 08
Someone who says that she wants to kill herself because she is ugly does probably mean that she feels ugly on the inside. She probably means that she feels inferior, and if she is serious about killing herself you need to do what you can to get her help. I would talk to her and ask her what she means, if you can do anything, why she needs to be beautiful to begin with if in your eyes she already is.