Wat if ur Best Friend wants to break ur relation with ur love ??
By nehaaaa
@nehaaaa (1748)
India
June 30, 2008 4:18am CST
It's very tough when we know that our bestfrnd want to break our relation with our love..Because he/she has started to love her/him or for any other reason.. What will u do if u got into such situation..Share ur experiences and/or ur views with me..
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3 responses
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
12 Aug 08
Hi neha. I will be curous to know if this situation is a real life situation?
Anyway, my go at it would be, I would be really upset with my best friend if he is the one doing it for his own love towards my girlfriend. But if this is the other way round,i.e, if my girlfriend loves him too more than me, then i think there is no way you can carry on with this relationship any longer. I would have 2 choices in this case. Either i trust my girlfriend over her relationship with me or I should rather make it clear with my girlfriend over her relationship with my best friend. And if its my best friend having a crush over my girlfriend, i would rather make it clear with my friend about this issue. If he prefers to keep doing that then i would be left with no other option than to ask my girlfriend to stop talking to him. But i don't think, it would affect my friendship with my best friend.
I have never been in such situation till now and i hope it never comes. i don't have any of the two.Neither a best friend, nor a girlfriend..LOL
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
12 Aug 08
Hey neha. I didn't tend to end up like this. I said, i just need time to get adjusted. I hope we can carry on our conversations. If you would like to..
@faln_angel1205 (1192)
• United States
11 Aug 08
My friend would have to give a darn good argument, and if they couldnt convince me then they better accept it, because a true friend will stick by your decisions no matter what..at least in my book.
@slyvixen42 (926)
• United States
30 Jun 08
I'm the kind of person who would let that person go without much of a fight. If they don't love me then there's no point in pursuing them. I don't want to smother anyone. I want people to decide to be with me, not be forced.