when it hurts?

If a person has a real tragetic story behind in his past,It will make us feel a bit for sometime but it wont stay in our mind forever unless the person is very closest to our heart.Evn the case is so it will also wont be in our thoughts forever.It may comeback into mind if you feel the same strategic situations in your life.

Just in case, upon hearing his stories about his past life msde me feel that I was stabbed by knife/sword that left me wounded emotionally and mentally...I think it will hurt me if I'm inlove with that guy. You can feel the hurt if you care for that person but if not there's nothing to heal because his stories won't left me wounded. I don't know if I got it right.

Really could not understand your discussion. Are you saying that the past story of a guy you know hurts you. Well that is possible. We are all hurt or let down by someone close in life. We all have to try and see the positive side of life and learn from our mistakes.