in which way you add your mylot friends?

I do it both ways. I get a lot of requests to be added to other's friends list, but, if I see a post that is very interesting, I'll check that person's profile to see what other posts they've made. If they are all interesting, or at least the majority are, I will request their friendship. I don't "collect" friends like some I've seen here. I don't understand the reasoning behind that. My friends are chosen because we have something in common, just as in real life.

Hi there xialinye, I always add any friends that need my approval, but when they send me a link without permission and responding any of my discussions, i will delete it right away. He don't need me, and see me as a person, he just want to spread his link. You, happy posting!! okay ? OoXx`dian

I haven't requested any friends in a long time. When I do, they should have a few common interests with me.

Some i requested after reading their discussions and some requested me.

Usually I will add friends who request me,because I have responded to one of their discussions,but from time to time,if I see a discussion of someones that I really like I will send them a request.

If I found nice photos, videos, blogs, forums or nice profiles, I would like to forward it to friends or ask friends to join to share with it. I ever invited many friends to join horsemingle.com. They thought it's a good place to meet friends.

I accept all friend requests that I receive. The more frieds, the more discussions, the more discussions the more responses. The more responses the more money, the more money the mor coffee. ;-)

Most of my friends requested my friendship, but I have many friends that I asked to add as well. If someone writes really good discussions and I feel they will add to my knowledge or challenge my views I'll add them.

I do both, but I am particular about who I have. For example, I am waiting to see if the 3 people requesting my friendship right now post more. I'm leary of low number posters. I know, we were all low at one time, but are they going to stick or are they just here this one time? I also go check profiles and see what they post and what their interests are. If I don't see anything in common I may deny them.

Hi, I will add friends when we have the same interests. Sometimes, I find some mylotters that are always responding to my discussions or join actively in the same discussions that I join, I will add them as friends too. I will also accept all friend requests.

I don't normally request friends. I do get a lot though. I normally just accept them unless they are a new user that only has a few responses and no new discussions. Those I wait a few days to see if they stick around.

i compell my friends to join in mylot using my referral. in this way i add friends also by requesting by email.

When some member response to my discussions and I like this response I request he/she to be a friend, or when I see some interest discussion and like the topic I do the same way, sometimes I have a request to add some one.

I usually send request when I find some long but intresting discussion that I don't have time to read. I naturally request the starter to be a friend.

When i 1st started out, i also request to be their frenz because i wanna know how to get about inside mylot.. And also i will request to be frenz with those whom respond to my posts.. hehe ^_^ But nowadays, i seem to get alot more requests to be my fren instead.. I guess it's probably they realise that i will mostly respond to discussions started by the same person?? hehe.. i dunno ^_^

I will not look any of the special catagories to accept my friendship, I can accept all country friends, i have deviate them based on the country, religion, gender or language etc.. etc.. Here the mylot only create us the opportunity to get more friends from the different part of world having no bar with anything.. This is the only place where you can get the friends from the different parts of world with different country/language/colour/status people.. But my only concern is, i will not approve the people those who send me the friends request with the discussions shows "0".. The main reason is, most of the people login to mylot, and send a friend request tot he people, once it get approved, they start sending the private message saying that, you can join this site and that site, just like that, they try to promote their other sites.. They are using the mylot as a platform to get more referral for their other sites, for which reason i will not encourage those type of people, and those friends request those who are hving more than 100 discussions or so, i will straight away approve their friendship.. When ever i get the friends request from the "0" response prople, i will wait for a couple of days, how their activities in mylot, whether they active in mylot, i will defenately approve them also.. You know at present i have 13 friends request which is pending, all are the said catagory, even after a month of the friends request their discussions shows that just 24.. So, I kept them pending. Nice discussions, thanks for the same.

When my reply is completed at last I will check the candidates who already have given the reply if I find them their reply is nice I will send them request to add as a friend.