can you really trust someone again after they kept so many secrets from you?
By piggywiggy
@piggywiggy (48)
Philippines
June 30, 2008 8:15am CST
i have watched mr and mrs smith and it was a very nice movie. nice action scenes. it made me wonder can you really trust someone after they have kept so many secrets from you? and they are really so good at hiding their secrets! all this time you thought you know everything about that person and in a wink of an eye it turns out he's not the person you thought you knew.
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@fratertelo (247)
• Indonesia
1 Jul 08
I dont think so. I am not so interested in others secret. But, as far as i knew, when somebody always try to keep so many secrets from their partner, so there is a problem. Why? because there is no trust anymore.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
10 Mar 09
I haven't seen the movie yet but I've heard that it's a really good one. As to trusting someone who's kept alot of secrets from you, I couldn't do it. I'd constantly be wondering what else their keeping from me. Trust is a huge issue with me and although I tend to trust those I'm around...once it's broken, that's it for me.
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@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
30 Jun 08
As far as I am concerned, I prefer not to know of any secret-a secret by ts very nature means something not to be knowm, infact, I would be very un happy with anybody who spills secrets about! My best friend is there fore one who keeps secrets away from me.
@knight_rlc26 (362)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
for me, i cant rely someone that i didn't now deeper. it is hard to trust someone that their personality is hidden to... what if some other day of your relationship it will turn on your back... it is hard thing to do... but, i make friends with caution... that i make it to the point that i know a little even is residence before trusting a certain thing to him... but, if that person is hiding then i will not let myself be with that person...
@insaneduck9 (836)
• United States
3 Jul 08
It's very hard to gain trust from a person who you've kept so many secrets from but people do change. Not all people change, but give your friend one more chance and see the outcome. You have nothing to lose, only a bad friend.
Besides, there are a lot of people in the world so do not worry about not having friends because there will always be someone there for you. I've been in this situation and on my point of view, it does not work out.
All i have to say is good luck! 
@thing17 (106)
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1 Jul 08
You know it's very hard to trust someone again when you've learned he/she hide you many secrets, but if you really love that person and he/she will ask forgiveness, you can trust him/her again. Because true love forgets all the negative things that happened in the past.
All we can do is to show the trust and respect to him/her and in the end he/she will show also a trust and respect to you. Whatever you do to someone it will do to you also, do as many good to others and others will do it to you also. God bless!
