Theres this girl
@skirvsatthird (35)
June 30, 2008 10:53am CST
Ok well there is this girl that i really like and i told her and she said that she has feelings for me too. But the problem is she has this ex boyfriend that she's trying to work stuff out with. They had been together for 4 years and she told me that she has never been committed to anything as long as she has been with him. And she feels that by being done with that relationship she feels like shes quiting or something. I dont know what to do or thing can someone help me?
2 responses
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
It's better for you to give her some space... because she is not yet over with her previous relationship.
And waiting patiently MAY REWARD YOU (but of course may not also) but It will only show how sincere you are in your affection for her. So my friend... just relax because if the two of you are meant together... YOU WILL BE whatever it takes even a much longer time.
@skirvsatthird (35)
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1 Jul 08
Yea i know and i have for almost two months now and i dont want to be waiting for her and waiting. Its driving me crazy but i geuss ill wait until i find someone better.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
30 Jun 08
you've mentioned that she's still trying to work stuff out with her ex boyfriend, right? if she's still trying and hoping to reconcile with his ex, that just means that she's still not over that guy and she's not still ready to be in another relationship. don't get involved with her yet. you will just be hurt in the end. instead, support her with her hearts desires. it might hurt a little because you like her but atleast, you won't lose a friend.
anne
@skirvsatthird (35)
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1 Jul 08
yes and i do support her i've told her that to. But im just confused and dont want to lose her as a friend. But thank you for your response.
