My best friend.
@marielagordita (76)
United States
June 30, 2008 12:00pm CST
My best friend is the most stubborn girl in the world.
I love her though, since 7 years we've been friends. She has a baby :) MY GOD SON. & She's married(she's 17 almost 18) I dont know what to do with her. she got married to her babys father & broke up with him recently but still married? they always used to fight everyday and break up alot.. her family(sisters) are like that to.. i support her no matter what but its really stressful to deal with.. she goes through so many problems.. & handles it in a bad way if i wasnt there to make her happy or help her i dont know what'd she do.
anyoe have a friend like this?
1 response
@sataness (321)
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30 Jun 08
In some ways it is a good idea to step back..however, at just 18 she's proberley feeling the isolation of being unable to go out and do the normal things 18 year olds do... just stay supportive and make sure that she doesn't feel too alone. You do have to understand that you have your own life to live and to have a friend that seems to have more worries than you need may feel like a drag.. but from the sound of it your the only person she has right now; no pressure on always being there but just realise the isolation she must feel and have some girly nights with her.
I used to have a friend that was going through abusive stages with her parents.. i know its a different concept but the result is that a friend helps to take off the strain. It is hard to have some of the worry on your shoulders however you will find a deeper friendship forms.
@marielagordita (76)
• United States
30 Jun 08
Oh did i mention she doesnt live with her husband she lives with her mom..and she doesnt have custody of my god son anymore because of something that happen. she hit the baby by accident and her family called cps so i cant really take her out and have fun i mean i can go over there but its always drama over there! she lives with her parents 4 brothers(older) and 2 sisters.. she stays home and takes care of the baby even though her mom has custody for now
@sataness (321)
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30 Jun 08
That really is an incredible butt of a family if u excuse my language.. don't give up on her it sounds to me, even more after that, that she needs you.. deal with the drama lol thats natural in some homes. I doubt they even considered that she needed their help before she got to stressed with it, how these people have automatically given up hope in their daughter is unreal. Sounds like she needs a hug to me.
