would u kick out ur daughter and heeer son
By chilenita
@chilenita (473)
Canada
July 1, 2008 2:16am CST
so we move back home and I start working out and doing my cleaning help out a lot and even my mom has said some positive stuff about me and my son 2 yrs old is a dig trouble maker and some how some were he got lipstick and make 6 lines on the wall and my mom came home before I could clean it off and she fliped out and told me to move out that she was sick of me and I can go and apply for calgary housing and stay there but down stiars and I can't belive that she kick me out due to an accidenta. I bruned down her house and it got renovated and she didn't kick me out for that but she will kick me out cause my son did some thing that a 2 yr normaly would do so I went apllyed for a calgary housing and didn't have some papers so I had to come back. I have so many familys here and not one like the fact that my mom helped me I'm more alone then ever
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@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
2 Jul 08
Well, I have to be honest with you. I have a 12, 29 and 30 year old, two sons and a daughter.
When my two oldest were about 13 I started telling them what I expected out of them with their schooling and stuff.
They were told that if they quit school, had babies before they were married and working to provide a stable home ect...that they would be out on their butts.
And I stuck to it. I really didn't think they would call me on it but they did.
The only way they would be allowed to live in my house after they graduated high school would be if they continued their education.
They had to be in school and they had to be working a part time job. Well guess what? They didn't believe me. And out they went.
They got back in on three different occasions by appealing to their step-father. And I put them right back out the door when I saw they weren't going to go back to school and follow through.
We live in hard times, but on the upside is that there is no reason why people can't get a good education. Especially here in Georgia where all these grants are given away for free.
I told my children that if they weren't going to get a good education so they could get a good job and have a nice car and nice housing; then they may as well get out there and live the way they were going to have to live eventually anyway.
The choice was theirs. They both have excellent jobs now making good money. They didn't do it with a good education, but they did it all the same without living under my roof.
As for your mom, I don't know her history or yours, but just because she had you, doesn't obligate her to have to provide for you for the rest of her life.
She must be ready for you to get on with your life so she can get on with hers.
Sorry, but I'm in your mom's corner.
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@chilenita (473)
• Canada
7 Jan 09
yeah u dont know about us... but when i told her i was prego she said "ill be here for u".. i dont live here for free i pay 900.oo now a month plus my own bills im also saving on the side so? she allways feed me with a golden spoon so its her own fault i realy so much on her... but yea when time comes ill leave n she will cry and miss us like there no tomorrow...
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
2 Jul 08
that crazy.. i wouldn't do kick you, might be upset but kids will be kids.