Sleep Disorder - do you have it?

Singapore
July 1, 2008 4:58am CST
this was a very new word to me until quite recently. i was on a trip with my partner when i woke up suddenly. i know he snores and it doesn't bother me at all. what woke me up was the realisation that he is not breathing!!! i looked at him for a good five seconds as he struggles to draw breath. he eventually did and a loud snore accompanied the successful effort. i got really worried and practically forced him to see a sleep specialist. turn out he has sleep apnae. now he wears a machine that helps him breathe when he sleeps. as for myself, i've got bruxism. it seems that sleep disorders are pretty common. how about you? do you have any sleep disorder?
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@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
1 Jul 08
Other than the occasional insomnia, no, no sleep disorders. Sleep apnea is usually related to weigh problems. Is your partner a big sized man? If he is, trying to loose some weight will help. Even going on regular walks for a good 20-30 mins a day will help a big bunch!
• Singapore
2 Jul 08
that's great to hear. at least one less problem for you. yes my partner is kinda big. he is trying to loose weight but my being around doesn't help. we have most of our meals together. me been the foodie only eat food that is tasty. so he is sorely tempted by my choice of food. maybe i should start eating healthily so that he can follow suit. ;[
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@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
2 Jul 08
Well, Like I mentioned before. Substitute your regular foods with some alternative will help you get started on eating healthy. It is a small change for the better. It takes a person to break into a habit in three weeks. You can always try it out for three weeks with the changes and then modify it again every now and then to suit your likings and needs. Always remember, if you are planning to go on a diet, the thing is to stick with it. A good way not to loose track is to go on the diet for 5 days, and eat normally for two. That way, you will not be discouraged to deviate. Also, include a small treat once a week. You deserve it cos you managed to stay on course for the diet. A treat could be anything you love to eat. From pizza to cakes to even a sweet drink. But limit it to one once a week. It is something that you can look forward to when you are on a diet.
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@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
3 Jul 08
Well, when I went on my diet a few years back, what I did was to cut down the sweet drinks to only one per day. Be it coffee or fizzy drinks, as long as it is sweet, I can only have ONE a day. It can be anytime of the day... but only one. Then it slowly went down to only two drinks every three days. Then it went down to only one every two days. Then to one once a week. It is not impossible. Do it gradually and you will find it easier to get off of sweet drinks. It was my gluttony during my trip that reversed all that effort. I am thinking of doing that again. It will take discipline, but it is all worth it! Same goes for the food substitution. Many diets fail because people are too eager to make changes, so they jump in right at the beginning. It is the cold turkey period that turns many people off! So, make the changes gradually. Over the span of one year, you will see the difference in your health!
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• Philippines
1 Jul 08
Yes. there are times that I cannot sleep no matter how I tried. Even if I turn on the radio or drink milk, it didn't work. I often ended up sleeping 1-2:00 in the morning.
• Singapore
2 Jul 08
that's really sad right? i'd be so angry at myself. it's worst when i have to wake up early the next day. i more i can't sleep the more anxious i become. the anxiety doesn't help me fall asleep either.
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@youdontsay (3497)
• United States
9 Jul 08
I have apnea, too, and use a CPAP when sleeping. I also have a hypersensitivity to adrenalin, which keeps me sleeping very lightly. I am aroused by every sound, shift of temperature, light, you name it. I don't get as much deep sleep as is normal. Am glad your partner got the CPAP. It saved his life!
• Singapore
10 Jul 08
wooo looks like it's been a long while since you've gotten a good night's sleep. the CPAP is good but sometimes it can be really noisy. i got to fall asleep first as the machine keeps me awake. yes i agree that the CPAP probably saved his life. thankfully the problem was caught before any thing happened. he was falling asleep most of the time.
@jazgottt (1180)
• Poland
2 Jul 08
hi applefreak. I think I don't have a sleep disorder. Could you explain to me what exactly is bruxism. My dictionary didn't tell me hehe. I am a night person, so I usually go to bed after midnight. But I don't think it is insomnia, because I fall asleep quickly. I don't have to get up early, so going to bed in late hours doesn't bother me a lot. I like night because it is more quite and I feel good in the evening and at night. Have a nice day, jazgottt.
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• Singapore
2 Jul 08
hi jazgottt great to hear that you don't have a sleep disorder. it's really a good thing to be able to fall asleep and waking up fresh. bruxism is characterised by the grinding / clenching of teeth when one sleeps. the clenching affects the jaws / molars. the grinding affects all the teeth. depending on the severity, some actually have all their teeth height reduced by half! it also affects your partner as the sound is really loud!
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@jazgottt (1180)
• Poland
2 Jul 08
Oh, I know bruxism from my own experience. I was a baby sitter and a little girl I wask taking care of had bruxism. But I had no idea, that it can cause teeth height reducing. There are so many sleep disorders. I was only close to insomnia. My mother doesn't have any sleep disorder, and she is 50 years old. Maybe I, as a daughter, will be free from sleep disorders hehe. My mother likes to take care of her little garden, and she always is busy. She helps my grandmothers with every day activities and cleaning house. I think this could be a reason of her healthy sleep - she is quite active, and often she spends hours outside the house. Cheerio, jazgottt.
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• Singapore
3 Jul 08
i am so envious of you. it's really a good thing to be free of all these. it's non life threatening, at least not bruxism. most people will just brush it off as 'one of those things'. only people suffering from it will know how annoying it can be. not to mention the risk on dental health. i don't want to end up with only half-height teeth. ;]
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@psalm1_3 (562)
• Philippines
1 Jul 08
I had especially when i'm excited... ^_^ But praying will do help me in those nights...
• Singapore
1 Jul 08
wow it's great to find something that works for you. i'm still looking for the perfect solution. hopefully i'll find it soon enough. take care ;)
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
7 Feb 12
I was actually diagnosed with level 3 sleep apnea. Mine was the holding my breath too. It certainly explained why I was so tired all the time even after sleeping. My insurance didn't pay for a machine unless I was a level 5 though. So I tried oxygen for a while. I eventually stopped wearing it because during the night I would get tangled up in the tube and wouldn't have it on anyway. I remember a few time being tickled by it during the night and brushing it away from my face.
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@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
9 Jul 08
Hello, applefreak! Wow, I had never heard about this sleeping disorder. I guess I am alright, because I never noticed anything strange while I am asleep. But my mother sometimes snores so high that it seems like she has sleeping disorder. What is this bruxism that you have? Respectfully, Munhozmib.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
22 Sep 09
Hello applefreak. I am glad that I don't have sleep disorder though sometimes I might suffer from one sleepless night due to my sleeping too long in the afternoon or my drinking tea in the evening that spoils my night sleep. It is such a pain if I cannot fall asleep. All the best to you, friend.
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@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
9 Jul 08
Yes sometimes, I got sleep disorder - it's such a bad feeling. I felt so much uneasiness to sleep again...
• Singapore
10 Jul 08
it's really no fun having that. kind of makes me wary going to bed too. the tossing and turning can really make me go crazy. some days i wish i can lay my hands on a sleeping pill. why does sleep elude some of us? thanks for replying ;p