why men likes long hair women?
By petiksmode
@petiksmode (2983)
Philippines
July 1, 2008 12:38pm CST
i remmeber few weeks back i am in salon and was having a hair spa treatment i undecided if i will cut my long hair or just have trimmed...i erally wanted to have a long hair, i have almost waist length hair(this is my longest)...i received txts that it is okay but all of these msge came from my female friends but none of my guy friend suggested the same way...they say that i may have trimmed but to cut it short...i am waiting for my someone to respond (the one i am seeing currently) and since he dont like it i just trimmed it down...but i told him that i have it shortened and he was not glad at all to hear it...he even say that he will just see me when it is long enough lols...
he came after a week and was surprised to still see my long hair he even says that he was nervous to see how my hair went...
my question (after long detail?) lols...what is it with the long hair??
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14 responses
@karmendra (1123)
• India
2 Jul 08
its true that long hair women looks beautiful, your question is also remarkable, what about long hair man?
so for as my opinion is concern i like only good nature girl. Long hair is an external thing. just like packaging. i know so many girls who cut their hair and she looks cute. long hair takes more care then short hair so its difficult to keep it..
@karmendra (1123)
• India
2 Jul 08
i think self satisfaction is most important. you are satisfy with your long here now. i wish your hair will grow as that you want..
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
yeah true enough i have a long hair now and this takes time to wash, comb, dry and fix...unlik with the short hair...but i do intent to keep my long hair until it reaches my hip...i want it to be very long not for guys but for myself...
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@squaretile (3778)
• Singapore
7 Jul 08
yup this is almost universally true. actually sometimes I find that women look prettier with long hair myself, even though I am a woman who just cut her long hair after not having short hair for 10 years!
I decided to change my hairstyle partly because the bob was in fashion and partly because it was getting crazy hot in my country! too warm to have long hair, even if I tied or bunned it up.
I think what matters is that you like your hairstyle and your significant other likes it cos he's the one that will be looking at your most of the time! my significant other loves my short hair so i guess I ahve the best of both worlds!
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
also here in our country it is freaking hot if the suns up...just this sunday i was tempted to cut my harir but it doesnt succeed i still have my long hair until today lols...
thnks
@koharukusumi (1539)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 08
Hey there petiksmode, I think long haired women are gorgeous because it's a very feminine thing to have beautiful and long hair. howver, short hair can be attractive too as long as the haircut is feminine and not too boyish. My theacher once said that the women beauty shows through her hair. :D
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
attractive short haired women that i really like includes meg ryan...she is really pretty lad in short hair rather than long hair...
@elenahap (104)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
4 Jul 08
It is more feminine. That is a cultural thing of course, because since ancient times women had long hair. Some cultures even hide the hair (ie muslims) because is too provoking for the male population. Long hair on a woman shows her feminimity. Since we are small, our oparents cut our hair in different ways to show us our roles in life: To the boys shorter, to the girls longer. Something like, pink is for a girl, blue is for a boy.
So it gets imprinted in our psychology, from the beginning of our life, and this happens for centuries now.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
5 Jul 08
yeah there are others who are not allowed to let thier hair be seen a man becoz that means infedility or they are inviting men pr provoking them...though i find it odd i respect thier custom..
thnks
@littlerayray77 (254)
• United States
2 Jul 08
I know I'm a girl but I have long hair myself. It just compliments a woman's soft curved body. Its just sexy! I mean have you seen the herbal essence commercials? Long shiny sexy hair kind of make you more feminine to a certain point. Guys want what they don't have and that's I guess another one of those opposite attracts things. Plus its some what of a tease when you have long hair...
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
yeah that seems to be the reason behind it...but honestly there women like meg ryan who is really sexy in havig a short hair as well winona ryder...
@qhwater (392)
• China
5 Jul 08
i like long hair and i have long hair myself. with long hair i can make many different hairstyles. for some important occations, a nice hairstyle can help me become more pretty. also i think long hair can make ladies look more femininity. however, with short hair, a girl will look like boy and seems she is more mature and ably.
why do men like long hair ladies? maybe they also think so.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
5 Jul 08
mmm i have a long hair near to my waist line...but i seldom style it...but yeah id speacial occasion styled long hair really fits...
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
2 Jul 08
Dear friend,
As a male I do like long hairs, may be most of Indians do like that. In our place most of women has long hairs. That is also a traditional one in our place that is southern part of India. May be most of men do have short haris than women may be not. Anyhow personally I feel women gets much of feminity with long hairs if that suits them. Majority of men may like women with long hairs in our place. But I had seen most of western women do have short hair than the asian women. May be the tradition and society too matter here.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
yeah i had a student in one of my tutoring days...whoe parents are both from india..all of them have long hair (father,mother and thier son) they say that it is thier religion and thier custom as well...
@citrusemma (508)
•
1 Jul 08
I have long blonde hair and I've been told guys like me because of that 
And when I've suggested getting it cut for practicality only my female friends agree
However, my closer family members tell me "not to cut of my most beautiful feature"
I'm not saying that long haired girls are more pretty, but if you have nicely looked after, glossy long hair, why let go an attraction like that?
I think in men's eyes it's like a girl saying she wants her assets removed, and of course, with short hair they don't understand the trouble maintaining it.
And when I've suggested getting it cut for practicality only my female friends agree
However, my closer family members tell me "not to cut of my most beautiful feature"
I'm not saying that long haired girls are more pretty, but if you have nicely looked after, glossy long hair, why let go an attraction like that?
I think in men's eyes it's like a girl saying she wants her assets removed, and of course, with short hair they don't understand the trouble maintaining it. @petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
1 Jul 08
yeah why do you have to take the view for this guys?lols...
if you really have pretty and glossy hair and you feel pretty on it then let it be...
but there are really moments that we wanted to cut it off for some reason like maintenance, hot weather etc...or somtimes we cut our hair as a sign of moving forward...ayt??
@DonnaLawson (4032)
• United States
2 Jul 08
Men love long hair, but women want something that looks good and can be taken care of easily.. I think that men think long hair is sexy or something like that.. I am not sure, but I do love my short haircut..
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
i have friends who had a real arguments with thier bf regarding thier hair...yeah that seems to be normal....
but as long as you feel godo and sexy on your short hair so be it!!!!
ayt sexy?? thnks
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
1 Jul 08
They used to have those foolishness out here in Jamaica were the men goes after the females with long hair and good looks. But one day a deejay did a song about the ones with those commodities and explain in the song that they are all dunce and only living after their good looks and long hair that song was a instant hit and men started to think twice. I don't know why they always see it as a problem when female cut their hair. Sometimes one hair can make them look so old and there are times when you simple want to look different for a change. I guess when you sit down and reason with him instant of just telling him at the spare of the moment that is when they are upset and then they want it to seems as if cutting your hair is the problem.
Well I think one should like me for my personality and not for the length of my hair.
I don't know why they always see it as a problem when female cut their hair. Sometimes one hair can make them look so old and there are times when you simple want to look different for a change. I guess when you sit down and reason with him instant of just telling him at the spare of the moment that is when they are upset and then they want it to seems as if cutting your hair is the problem.
Well I think one should like me for my personality and not for the length of my hair.@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
1 Jul 08
yeah...when i actually asked him why is that so...his answer is as simple as.. i looked good wiht long hair...so who would think of ever cutting it real short???lols
@fluffnflowers (1594)
• United States
2 Jul 08
I think it's kind of funny that guys seem to have a general like of longer hair on women. I don't know if it's that they associate long hair with femininity or what, but I think a lot of the pixie cuts look more feminine than some longer 'dos.
I was tempted to buzz my long hair down to the skin this summer, but my mom said that I had a lumpy head and that it'd look awful.
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
hahaha...the one that i am seeing now is a guy with kinda long hair but not as long as mine just below his ears...he wanted to have a clean cut(short hair) for a change but i told him not do becoz of the odd shape of his head it is not lumpy but flat back instead...
@Johar_ahmad (419)
• Malaysia
2 Jul 08
for me i don't choose women from their look, i prefer choosing them from their honesty. thats is the way if you want to feel the true meaning of love
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
yeah i do undertand..you love a women even without the hair...
what i mean is it will always be a reason for you to take 2nd look on women with long hair....
but if that doesnt work for you that is nice as well we all hvae preferences...
tnnks
@abruzzi10 (622)
• Latvia
1 Jul 08
:D i think because short hair women looks like men :D
So, i like girls with figure :)
Sorry for my bad english
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
1 Jul 08
ah...hahahaha looks like men hahahah ( i cant help but laugh sorry)you might be surprise to know that the short haired girl you are interested in is going to the same barber like yours...that could odd...or if someone bump in the 2 of you the person will greet your girl, "hey bro!!" lols...
yeah i now prefer to stay my hair lengthy enough not to mistakenly address sir!!!lols
tnks for the i had fun...
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
hmmm,,,maybe that could be simple as you just like it that way...lols...
