Am I A Good Friend
By Brithony
@Brithony (12)
Trinidad And Tobago
July 1, 2008 1:33pm CST
Sometimes i wonder if i'm a good frnd,or s-one who ppl hang out wit if they feel like! Well i've been frnds wit my g/f 4 7yrs,we used to alwayz hangt out 2 gether,always wear the same things,think alike(u know wat i mean).Basically we consider ourselves as twins.But recently she's found a new frnd(a girl) and they r doin wat we used 2 do,an it bothers me ALOT.I tell her how i feel an she knows exactly how i feel, but i don't tink i can get us back the way we were.I c d way she reacts wen her frnd is around,i really don't like it at all,she tells her everything...if all of us is 2 gether she prefer to lime wit her,she even hardly calls me. Sometimes i catch myself pushing my self towards her to catch her attention an it doesn't work...Could u pls help me out here...
2 responses
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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1 Jul 08
Hello Brithony,
Find yourself another friend because some friend grow out of old friends, maybe if you find a new friend she might want to come back to you. Sometimes its good to find new friend to hang you'll have more to talk about.
Good luck
Tamarafireheart.
@Brithony (12)
• Trinidad And Tobago
6 Jul 08
Well i did(jus 4 a while) and its not even working....an she even uses it against me! I don't feel a connection wit my other frnds like i would wit her.A night ago i asked her if she's goin to her cousin birthnight she said maybe,when i called her that night she's was only goin if her frnd is goin....Life is so f*^Ked up!!!!!!!!!!
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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6 Jul 08
Hello Brithony,
I am so sorry you are feelimg like that believe me because I went through the same thing and I used to think no one care anymore and if my friend treat me like that then I have no friend. Well what you really have to do is please try and ignore he completly, even if she try to get in touch with you, just ignore her and see how she feels like it, then she might apoligise to you and you can take it from there.
Good luck.
Tamarafireheart.
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
1 Jul 08
This happened to me back in high school a long time ago . My best friend and me slowly drifted apart because she became friends with someone else . She would act like I wasn't even alive . Few years after school we ran into one another and she said she was sorry , and that she always wanted to be in the in crowd , and now sees it was not worth losing the best friend she ever had . No1 will ever replace you remember that . So, what you gotta do is talk to your friend and plan to do something asap .
