To be really happy

somebody tell me that they feels the real happy in a surprising times. Or they may experienced by an amusing time.

i cant say that we can be really happy in our lives coz everything around us keep on changing even the person that makes us happy might be gone and leave pain in our hearts. maybe you can say happy when your contented of what you have at the moment and never to look for the things that you cant have. As for me i cant really say im happy even my daughter is here with me..coz more problem is coming out and i just hope that i can give her the best that i can give..i have a bf that loves me but it doesn't make me completely happy. life is so different now and i just need to be strong.

I think you can be happy if you think that you are. I think connection with other people is something that leads to happiness. When you are connected with others you are happy when you are lonely you are not. Sometimes you can be content when you are alone though. I for one usually enjoy my own company.

Honestly, I am not contented and happy with my life now because of so much problem that surrounds me now.. Maybe before I can still say that I am happy.. But after I graduated college, everything had changed.. I just hate my life now.. I feel lost and alone.. Maybe, this is what they called it life.. Everything keep on changing because there is no permanent thing in this world..