do you laugh when you get angry?
By jijomathew
@jijomathew (519)
India
July 2, 2008 3:18am CST
i do not laugh when i get angry ,when i get angry i show my anger to the person sitting next to me, i do not really know how to controle my anger and usually throw it to my loved ones like my mother,anger really makes a person fall in tension and laughing while in anger is a great challenge for a person indeed ,i know some people who really practice it .
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17 responses
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
4 Jul 08
It is hard for me to keep it all in sometimes and I tend to cry , and sometimes throw things . If I am so frustrated, and things just keep on happening and the fight wont stop , I may say something so off the wall and start laughing .
@mulau2u (1459)
• Malaysia
4 Jul 08
i don't think that i will laugh when i get hungry, it is easy to me to get angry when my stomach don't have enough food on it. but don't get me wrong i am not a person like to be angry easily just in case other people did something wrong to me then my anger will come up easily.
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@madlees (1377)
• India
3 Jul 08
Hi Jijo,
Laughing is real hard when you are upset or angry. But always try to see the humour side of it . You are hitting / bashing at the person near you but what will happen if that is not the person who irritated you?
Try to control yourself and stop yourself from bashing out the next person.
What will happen if that is a child near you? The child will not take it easy and cry till the top of the world caves down on to your head.. All the best
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
3 Jul 08
i guess nobody laughed when they are angry.
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@runahead (82)
• China
3 Jul 08
Do u mean if one guy get angry to another guy, he still keep smile on his face to him? I think it is really difficult to keep smile in that situation.What i choose to respond is not to talk to him or just leave without a word. I belong to that kind of people who couldn't mask our feeling. I know it is a defect in the communication when i contact with others but I just couldn't change it .It is fate!
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
6 Jul 08
When I get angry I try to channel it ito someting productive like my writing. When my husband gets angry, I encourage him to do the same. He used to flip out when he got angry, but he's getting better at controlling himself. Anger should never be directed at another person.
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
2 Jul 08
well there had been occasions that i laughed when i was angry. it's not really about controlling anger. it's more about the situation being so ridiculous! it's not a good laugh though i must say. it's more like an exasperated laugh, telling the person that 'i'm amazed you can even think about that'. sometimes the situation really leaves me with no choice but to laugh. guess it's not really too bad being able to laugh still. ;p
@pikeshpd (181)
• India
2 Jul 08
This is not a cup of tea for any one who could laugh at the time of getting angry. But I tried many tiems to do my level best to do and I had got success many times. And this is good idea to get rid of angry on anyone who make you disturb... So, keep trying to do it, you to will get success..
best of luck
@gemini_rose (16264)
•
2 Jul 08
I do actually! It is awful, usually it is with the kids, they do something and although I am mad, really mad, I laugh and I have to go out of the room so they cannot see me. I also used to laugh if I had done something wrong, in fact I would not just laugh I would get the giggles and end up in even bigger trouble than ever.
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@jijomathew (519)
• India
2 Jul 08
well,i think you have foumd a way of laughing when you are angry.is he that cute?
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
2 Jul 08
lol..
i have 3 younger brothers...
2 under the age of 4...
so they will fight and just encourage each other to jump off chairs and all...
and also they will be feeding each other....
but making a huge mess!!!!
and when we bring them to wash their hands, they will squrit the water to their bodies and wet themselves so much that we will have to bath them!!!
arrrggghhh!!!!
@nareshreddy68 (628)
• India
2 Jul 08
I will not laugh I will think first atry to solve the problem I mainly thinks that how to solve the problem and angry will not be always solution to the problem
@ifglan (1152)
• China
2 Jul 08
No,it's hard for me to laugh in that situation.
When i'm angry,i will always keep myself in the room,try to think and calm down,but sometimes i can't help myself from throwing things and kicking things :( i think it's very crude,and every time i will regret for doing that.
@jijomathew (519)
• India
2 Jul 08
hey you are really like me i also beat and throw things and after that i regret to what i have done,i cannot controle my anger and i am really taking steps to make it into control.
@arunmenon2006 (246)
• India
2 Jul 08
Everyone cannot laugh when they got angry. Definitely I am not that guy. I will show my anger to the person who made me angry by shouting at them or even punching them depending upon the situation. But I must tell you one thing, I am not a person who always angry with others.
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
I usually smile to ease the tension. However, if it is really intense, I'm definitely one of the many who can't laugh while angry. Yeah, it is hard to control anger especially if something really serious has happened. I just try to keep thinking positively that it would be resolved effectively.
@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
No, I can't. When im angry, I show it because if I just hold it inside me and pretend not to be, there is a big possibility that it will burst out soon and will be more complicated. I cannot laugh but I always try to relax and be reasonable when throwing out words.