what will you do if u live by faith but see ur faith being shattered like glass?

India
July 2, 2008 4:36am CST
i strongly believe that faith is what keeps us moving.i have faith in myself and this is my strength,but some events recently have instilled fear in me regarding this.what would you do if you see ur relationship on the brink of a disaster?if ur smooth life gets interrupted by someone from his past..n u start losing faith in everything..u r fearful of the consequences..u do not know if the relationship u took so long to decide on and get into..will last or not...u just wont b able to stop all kinds of thoughts entring ur mind....
4 responses
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
Has something happened already that made you worry? If there is, then you have to talk with your boyfriend. You have to face the reality that there are some issues that will not be resolved if you do not talk about it in the open. Ask him on what he feels about this situation and you tell him what you feel. Tell him that you are worried about your relationship and if this someone from his past is going to reenter in your lives. And, whatever the outcome of your conversation you have to be strong!!! Always believe in yourself that you have the capacity to understand him and you have the strength and the courage to fight for the relationship you have with him. Lastly, always pray for guidance from the One because no matter how big your problem may be, He will always be there to help and guide you. Godbless...
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• India
3 Jul 08
i am greatly touched by your response..i realise that things should be talked out open and clear now....now i have mentally prepared myself for any decision of his...but i still hope that if God wishes..everything is back to normal soon.....thankyou so much...
@makaira (1158)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
just bear in mind that change is the only constant thing in this world. you cannot stop it. you have to face your fear and look at the brighter side of it... just be positive that all will be okay even if you loose your relationship.. it's not yet the end of the world...
• India
3 Jul 08
thanx a lot 4 d encouragement....
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
2 Jul 08
You can keep on renewing your faith according to circumstances. Faith is powerful than any other thing. Dont let anything shake your faith in something else. There is a difference between faith and trust. You can loose your trust on someone but faith will keep you going.
• India
3 Jul 08
thanx kwenge..i so agree with you...i should not lose faith because of this....
@acevivx (1566)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
It is when we are faced with the heaviest problems or hurts that we need to have faith. We don't really need to test our faith when our life is going opn well and with no storms on the horizon. So when you say your faith is being shattered by glass what do you need to do? Hold on to your faith because that is the time that you are being tested whether or not indeed uyou have faith. If you have faith, it should not be shattered at all. If you give up or despair it can only mean one thing... that you never had faith at all becaue crises, problems and troubles are the true test of whether or not you have faith at all.