love ! love is painful or not ?
By ak_shaam
@ak_shaam (5)
July 2, 2008 7:18am CST
is love is painful or not ? i think love is not painful if have with both good understanding and have good communication ! but there is not understanding i think love is painful for both !
7 responses
@abhirup001 (9)
• India
11 Aug 08
love contains pain and joy together.if there is no pain ,then what is the significance of joy? one should enjoy the pain and attraction of love.
@inia_54 (175)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 08
Love is wonderful if your realtionship is good. The first few months is an adjustment period, where both parties will find good things to do together. You are also happy to show off you partner to your friends especilly if he is goodlooking, rich and caring. However, love can turn sour after he becomes bored with you. Then, he will start giving excuses for not seeing you, forget his dates, your birthday, etc. He will get fed up when you start chasing him around, demanding for his explanation. He will put all the blame in you, saying that you controlling his life. So that is a good excuse for him to breakup with you, right?
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
2 Jul 08
Love breaks the heart and it tears the parties concerned emotionally-that is where falling in love turns out to be very painful.I have experienced the painful side of love myself!
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
Yes, I agree with you... Love can be painful only if both of them don't agree with each other, always have misunderstanding, no trust with each other, lack of communications and most of all jealous with other people... Sometimes, even we don't like it to happen there are some circumstances that we hurt our love one or vice versa.. We are not aware that we already hurt him/her... We need to be sensitive to the feelings of our love one so that we can't hurt him/her and there will be no pain for both of you...
@celestial052506 (2914)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
Yes you are right, but in the other hand love is painful if the one you've love don't love you honestly. Later on you can find out he or she is playing only your feelings. But if you love each other honestly, i think no pain will be experienced. Happy posting!
@ChristLikeFarmer (563)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
Well love is the most complicated feeling in the world but this feelings is what makes us human. Love is definitely painfull and yet it is the most happiest a person would ever feel. Complicated LOL!!!
