Marital Bed size
By Balozi
@Balozi (243)
Kenya
July 2, 2008 11:52am CST
Can someone tell me, what is the right size of a matrimonial bed? A 4*6', 5*6', 6*6' or 8*6'? You see the it all arises from the possibilities of when you can't see eye to and one has to put up on the sofa in the living room. If its an 8*6', I suppose you could put a barbed wire in the middle. These things happen you know...!
3 responses
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
2 Jul 08
Marital bed doesnt have to be a super double-let it be a small bed that bearly holds two with a high possibility of the second person falling off in his sleep. The idea is that sleeping is meaningful to the marrieds if the two are close together-a double bed creates unnecessary space betwen the couples and denies them the cudling phenomenon!
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@Balozi (243)
• Kenya
2 Jul 08
U have the gist of the idea. I think by your recommendation a 3*6' fits the ideal situation eh! I love it. With an evening quarrel there is no way you can avoid discussion to resolve and have a coalition. There are less divorces in families with smaller matrimonial beds.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
3 Jul 08
Thanks for BR and I swear to you, i was not even thinking about the other scenario in the event of a quarrel, I didnt know a narrow bed could do so much-yeah, with a narrow bed, even quarrels get settled-no distance, I rub on her and very soon she will forget that we even quarrelled, I might even hear a word or two of worship from her when the rubbing gets so right!!LOL!-Thanks!
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
2 Jul 08
I don't think I understand what your asking. But I'll give it a go. My husband and I have a king size bed. We bought it soon after we married. We had a queen size before that. We needed the room of the bigger bed. I am 5'2" he is 6'7". I hope this answers your discussion.
@Balozi (243)
• Kenya
2 Jul 08
Queen size, king or princes, luk at Academic2 answer. He literally gets the concept. What do u do when u r sulking, he is uncommunicative, u do the snooze back to back with pillows stacked between? When it comes to cuddling, who searches for the other in massive acre of mattress and blankets?
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
2 Jul 08
You didn't ask that in your discussion. You asked what the right size bed it. My answer is it depends on the people. What do I do when if we are fighting? We don't go to bed mad - we argue it out till its over life is too short not to. We like having a big bed beacuse neither he or I like to be touched when sleeping. He sleeps on his side I sleep on mine. If we want to be closer we can but we don't have to.
So again in response to the actual question you asked which was "Can someone tell me, what is the right size of a matrimonial bed?" my response is what ever size you are confortable in.
@shubh1937 (39)
• India
3 Jul 08
Never carry on a fight overnight.Bed and bed actrivity should be used to resolve it.New connection will have unknown and maybe bigger problems so go on with the same person and problem, at least you know what is in store.
