Do you think its better to be single or non-single?
By Justin16
@Justin16 (55)
United States
July 2, 2008 1:21pm CST
I think its better to be single atleast when your young cause when your young i think it should be all a bout parties and fun and i think you should atchually love someone when you a little bit older cause your to young to have a serious relationship with somebody.
7 responses
@cutelang (83)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
i think that is up to the needs of a person.If a person is better to be single than to be non-single,then one should go for it if it makes one a better person than to have a partner yet suffering emotionally,mentally,physically,and spiritually.
This is also to a person better to be non-single than to be single.(same explanation or rather reason for it)
hi Justin! are you 16 years old?(guessing only)
@jhonymax2cool (424)
• India
2 Jul 08
well i would say if u r like me u should always be single cause i m so damn lazy and carefree that i wouldnt wanna involve someoe else into my own troubles .i mean whe u r single u dont have to worry about others and u can spend or save for urself and do whtever u wanna do with urlife .but when u r married u have to think about the person's future too and the fact that whtever u do would effect the other one too.so single is better and u can have as much fun and love as u want.
@keke22 (10)
• Trinidad And Tobago
3 Jul 08
i think it all depends on what you want in your life and how you see yourself setting uot to achieve that... i have been single a little over a year now and so far it's going great. Although i do miss having that significant other in my life, being single helps me to better focus on completing school, establishing my career, spend more quality time with friends and family that i previously ignored all too often! Don't rush into a relationship just for the sake of wanting to be like everyone else, or as a sudden reaction to feeling lonely... sometimes being single for a while can do you more good than harm and make you a better and stronger person
@kameleen (151)
• Belgium
2 Jul 08
it's a personal chose offcourse.
I had liked to have someone when i was a teenager, but there wasn't anyone who was interesting, although there were a lot interested in me. i'm not really a person who just starts something to see what it is, when there are someone elses feelings envolved.
but it all depends, some people are really great singles and others are horrible, lonely, depressive singles. and vice versa.
i, myself, am independent and it doesn't make much of a difference for me if i was single or not. I can be flexible and chance my way of life without regretting it.
party's or not, it doesn't matter to me. As a couple you can go to great party's also and you'll be sure that you don't have to go home alone :p .
@joannetubi (1)
• Guatemala
2 Jul 08
I think that when you are young it is important to develope your own personality, to discover the things you like and the things you dislike. When you are in a relationship throughout all your teenage years, you loose alot of yourself and if that relationship does not last ... well.. Its kind of a shock to start to create yourself a bit late.. but then again everything is so personal.