love marriage vs arrange marriage?

India
November 3, 2006 11:39am CST
we fallin love then we get out of love, sometimes we also get kicked out of love, so when our life is at stake what should we opt for a love marriage or an arranged one and why???
2 responses
• United States
3 Nov 06
If your life is at stake and you MUST get married then I think that an arranged marriage is the way to go, just because you can arrange a marriage and fall in love later faster than you can fall in love and then get a marriage together. Otherwise I think that falling in love is the only option. I think that if you are making a life long promise to a person you must have a certain love for them.
• India
3 Nov 06
and what if she is not the one, what if she is just not right and i havent spend much tie wid her 2 find out???
• United States
3 Nov 06
Then get a divorce, I don't personally believe in divorce but there is so much life to be lived, if you were supposed to be great at life then you would know at birth who you were going to marry and everything would work out perfectly, not everything works exactly like it should.
• India
3 Nov 06
so shouldnt u wait for the one??
• Pakistan
3 Nov 06
i prefer arrange marriage cos now a days there is no love left. People just passes their time and in the end they go and marry someone else.
• India
3 Nov 06
i dont think so i think there is still love out there and always will be, but u know sometimes circumstances make things out of hand u end bieng apart when u should have ben together