How wife can be more lovable towards her hubby...

All men want is the respect of their wives. Even if he knows his wife loves him, it builds his feeling of completeness and gives him the security of his manhood. By respect, I mean, to let him know that he is the man of the house. Never belittle him in front of others. Tell him how strong he is in your eyes and that you want his opinion in different things. This is not to say, he is to walk on you or make you less of a woman, but usually, if you build him up, he will give you the love and devotion you want. It may take a while, because he might think you are getting ready to ask him for something. If he says, "Okay, what you want?" Just say, "Nothing sweetheart, I wanted you to know that I trust you, love you and that you are indeed the man of the house." He will be so surprised, that he will think twice before every decision that he makes, just so he won't let you down. You have to be consistent, or he will know it is fake. This takes years of practice, believe me. I learned the hard way. Nanikj

Its best to do this right at the start of your marriage, and don't slow down after a year or two. Just keep treating him with respect, but if you do have a concern, talk to him about it when he's relaxed. I love cooking for him when I'm not working. The crockpot is my best friend, because I can have hot meals waiting for him when he comes home. I get up with him and make his coffee, and lunch, and spend time with him. I rub his back when it hurts, and give him Pepto when his tummy hurts. The best thing about about doing all this? He does it for me as well! He will cook for me, give me back rubs, and bring me coffee in bed because I do it for him. We both feel safe and loved.

Thanks for your suggestions, I will keep all these in my mind. How come you know all these, are you married?