The difference between men and woman
By coopstar
@coopstar (282)
United States
July 3, 2008 10:11am CST
To me its complety emotional, woman tend to act and think on emotion,(how does it make you feel) men are results orented,we fix things, it broke me fix.We comuncate on completely different plains.I know myself, if my wife complanes or is upset I want to fix the problem. After years of banging my head against that wall I realized she just wants empathy. Thats where the biggest difference is , men dont say things without looking for the answer.I dont need someone to say awww i hate that when that happens, i need them to say yo fool heres how you do it.
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@klaudyou (501)
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3 Jul 08
It is considered that the family has different meanings for the different sexes. Women look for protection, in the family context speaking, while men look for realization and for a more materialistic development. Both these needs have developed themselves some methods: the inner methods for the woman and the outer methods for the man. It has to be all complete, right?
Well, basically, that's why I think women are better soul fighters and men are more weapon fighters (or let's just say ... tool fighters) 
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@paroloza (140)
• United States
3 Jul 08
The greatest mistake when discussing human behaviour is to generalize. There is simply no such person as "the woman", not more than there is a person that is "the man". Everyone is an individual, who was born into, grown up with and educated according to, a certain cultural and educational pattern of society.
In my experience, men who complain most about the "emotional and illogic" behaviour of the women they live with, are bound to look exactly for this type of feminity, because it's the only one they recognize. They wouldn't accept a relation with a non emotional and logic woman, because they couldn't feel "superior" anymore.
Stop educating girls as girls and boys as boys, and educate girls and boys as what they are primarily: human beings. Society would make a great leap to happiness.
I forgot to tell you: I'm female.
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@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
3 Jul 08
The only real difference is a matter of plumbing. I fix what needs fixing rather than wait for my husband. He can shop or cook or whatever rather than wait for me. He's more likely than I to remember other people's birthdays, anniversaries, etc. Why not?
@coopstar (282)
• United States
3 Jul 08
if plumbing is the only diff. I would like to see an all girls basketball team against an all boys team, will see what plumbing does for them then. theres alot of things girls cant do that boys can, and vice versa, and alot they both can do.My point was more in the way we interact with each other.
@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
3 Jul 08
Match the girls and the guys for height and weight, and you'll see a great game, which either side could easily win.
We can only hope that, some day, people will drop the preconceived notions and allow us to be alike and equal.
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
3 Jul 08
men are some people, (a) woman is only one person 
sorry just kidding. i think it depends on the person. it is said that in general, women use their right brain more, while men use their left brain more. i don't know if it is right.
sorry just kidding. i think it depends on the person. it is said that in general, women use their right brain more, while men use their left brain more. i don't know if it is right. 
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
5 Jul 08
Men and women. They are all human with different qualities. What can I say? But that's what makes them interesting...aren't they?
