He's blind...........
By guinness1982
@guinness1982 (261)
United States
July 3, 2008 11:37am CST
How would you handle a situation where your have 4 friends that are all friends with each other 2 guys and 2 girls and me and my boyfriend (that's the circle of friends involved here) now I'm not going to use real names but ill make some up, we have Jane and john and they are boyfriend and girlfriend. then theres bob and Sam now bob lives with Sam but there just friends and sam and john are basicly brother and sister, then me and my boyfriend. Bob and john are "best friends" and about 6 months or more ago me Sam and my boyfriend found out that bob and Jane (johns girlfriend) are sleeping together and we have tried to tell john about it but Jane just makes it sound to john that we all are out to get her and that theres nothing going on and bob says the same. then he tells me and my boyfriend that he cant believe that we as his friends would go behind his back and tell john whats going on. now we are not liars and we HATE what bob has done to john. well bob has moved out of state for awhile. After he moved we tried to tell john again cause his girlfriend is using him and is still talking to bob. (theres so much to it) but he is so blind he asked if anyone had proof (cause Jane makes it sound like we all hate her and are out to get her) we told him no, but from what we have seen and what bob says to us (at one point Jane and bob tried using mine and my boyfriends house as a hang out for them to get together till we figured it out and put a stop to it real fast) that they definitely are sleeping together but he wont take that I guess. Now bob is writing me letters saying how he cant believe that we would go tell john all about this stuff, he put it like "Friends arnt supposed to do that to friends" (talking about us telling john what was going on) I cant believe he said that to us when we are the friends we just think john has the right to know whats going on. johns never done anything to us or anyone else and he needs to know that his best friend and his girl are sleeping together. I cant believe bob would try and give us the "True friends dont do that" to us when hes the one sleeping with his bestfriends girlfriend OMG people are stupid. I hope that john wakes up soon I really do.....
1 response
@kangel48446 (507)
• United States
3 Jul 08
This is definitely a situation that I wouldn't want to be in. I have been on both sides of a cheating scenerio, and neither of them seem to be healthy. When my so-called best friend told my boyfriend that I was cheating, I felt like she has betrayed my trust but it went beyond that because she had done more than just tell. I lost all trust in girl relationships and am very picky on who I let close to my family since then. Then, I've also been the person to tell my friend that he was being cheated on. I learned that it's best to just keep out of it because even when you're trying to do the right thing, it always seems to be the wrong one. Unless you have solid proof, they will call you a liar and turn it all around on you. It's not worth it, all I got out of it was hard feelings and loss of friendship.
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