I will share my husband to you...my bestfriend..

Hi there! I would definitely share my husband as a father to the child but not as a husband to my best friend.. My husband has the right also to see his child and vice versa. I would give them the time to share each other and be father and son but not in the house of my best friend. I would rather invite the child in my house. Even let him have a sleep over with my children. I would even let my children know they have a brother from their father's previous relationship. I would make it a point that this agreement would be legal for us three. I must take precaution that no relationship would rekindle between my husband and my best friend. I have to look after for the welfare of my own family.

i think no one will share husband with friends, even best friend. Because you should never give husband any chance to leave you family. the dangerou action will lead to disaster.

If there is only one man in this world, i will give my husband to her.

I'm having trouble with the theory of this discussion-You're saying A Man Fathered a Child by one Woman,they Broke up,badly,and He then got married to Her Best Friend..And the women are STILL best friends? And the Guy hasn't seen the child since He was Born? And the kid now has some fatal condition,is old enough to want to know his Father,and the Guy STILL hasn't made any effort to see the kid? The Guy IS the Childs Father,there's no ACTING involved,It just appears He's abdicated his responsibility during the kid's life so far-If He hasn't been around while the kid grew up,or given any support by this stage in the kid's life,what can He do now? It sounds like the Mother didn't or doesn't want him near the Kid,if He hasn't been in their life since the kid's Birth..Why would She consider letting him back in at this stage? I suppose I just can't accept 2 Women remaining best friends when there's a Guy between them who impregnated one,left Her,then Married the Other!

Well, in this case I will allow him to be with his son but not with the mother. The child need his father and he should take care of his son for the last time. It is so inhuman if both of them will not be given a chance to be together for that last, time. There's no problem as long as his focus is only for the son nothing more than that.

errrr what if I do not want your husband?

Well I think first thing to try is to find the father. his father has the right to know what is happening with his son. I guess in normal situations like this the father would surely be interested to see his son for the last time. I feel that if your husband will try to stand as the false father you are making a lie to the son and it's just not right at the moment. i think the real father deserves to know it first before making your husband do the role.

ShepardSpy summed up what I was thinking. I wouldn't be a very good friend if I married the guy that got my best freiend pregnant and dumped her...and I wouldn't be married to a guy who basically abandoned his own child. What I don't get is the "sharing" part. I can allow my husband to be a father to his children without sharing him with the mother of those children. So I guess I'm saying yes I would share him...with the child, but not with the mother. Actually I'm not against relationships involving more than two people so I would share completely if we all wanted to but that's just my personal opinion since I get along well with the mother of my step children.

good day... I would. I mean if only to ease the pain of a dying son why not? Love is about sharing then let's share.

Let him be with his son. Go with him if you are worried about the other woman. It would not hurt to be there for both of them.

Absolutely I would let my husband be father to his son, regardless who the mother was. I woudlnt see it as sharing him with my best friend since they arent on good terms especially..but how could i live with myself not letting a father and son be part of each others life, and if the mom (your best friend) isnt allowing it, then shame on her. I have to assume that if you are married to the guy he isnt a bad guy or some jerk that would harm his son, so definitely you need to let the son and father have a relationship.