Would u rather be with someone for the wrong reasons or alone for the right ones

I am one who has been with someone for the wrong reasons. Not once but three times. I have finally learned that peace of mind and heart is more important than 'just settling' for anything or anyone. I think marriage just wasn't in God's plan for me. But they say there is someone for everyone. And I am not alone, I have my family. And the best family in the world! Janet

I'd rather be alone than be with someone for the wrong reasons. There's no sense being with someone like that, you will only make both of you miserable.

that is the big misconception. we are not alone ever. we are all connected to everyone else we are all connected to God. I would not be with someone for any reason other then wanted to share my life and happiness with. I am not afraid of not being in a relationship. everyone needs some time to reflect and connect God. and we can do that everyday if we just sit in silence and feel the God within

There is no one else's company over the long term that I prefer over my own. I always win arguments with myself. I never have to worry where I am, what I'm doing, who I'm with or when I'll be home. If I ruin dinner, I start over and no complaints. I never bore myself and never have to listen to the same stories and bad jokes over and over, and I love washing my own underwear! lol So yeah - I'd rather be alone with myself, than with someone just for the sake of not being alone. Lonliness is really a state of mind not being. If you can't entertain yourself, then you have no business expecting someone else to do it for you all the time. We all need to give and receive love, but for crying out loud, it should be real not feined or forced.

i rather be happy and alone than in a relationship from hell and stress out and be miserable

I would definitely not stay in the relationship for the wrong reasons. But just like someone else said, it is easier said than done. Being alone stinks. And it is hard to get back into the swing of things as I am going to have to start finding out again myself after 25 yrs. of being married. I didn't want out of it but he did. So I guess it works both ways. But if the tables were turned I would do the same thing. There is a saying that goes like this " It is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all". You deserve to be happy! And with someone that makes you feel safe. Good luck and God Bless you.

I'd rather be alone for the right reasons.If things can't work out for couples,then it's better for them to be alone and happy than together and miserable.

I would rather be alone for the right reasons. Luckily I am with someone for the right reason.

I have to say I'm happy being by myself. I'm widowed and have had relationships in the past, and I'm done with the drama. I'd rather live alone with my pets and do whatever I want, I have catered for years to other people in one way or the other. Now it is my time to chill and have my home to myself.

I am now in that stage in life. Many of my friends are attached and they are always urging me to get a boyfriend too. I do have suitors but I have no feelings for any of them. Even though I may not be that young anymore, I still rather wait for the right one than being stuck with the wrong one. Of course, it's never easy to know who is the right one. I just have to pray about that. Being alone doesn't mean lonely. Right now, even though I am 'so-called' alone, I do not feel lonely at all. I do not feel the need for companionship and intimacy with another person. I am very comfortable with my current status.

I have been married and I have had a few good long loving relationships and I am not afraid of being alone. I don't mind being on my own now. I was always a solitary person. I never fit in with other children at school because I was different and they used to pick on me but now I know it is good to be different. I am independent. I make all my own decisions. I don't need to ask anyone if I should do what I want to do. I support myself financially and emotionally. I have been emotionally dependent on another person. When I am in a loving relationship I care more for my beloved than I do for myself. If the person I love is not happy I am not happy and it makes life full of concern and compassion for that person. Now I just love everybody and think of everyone as my friend.

I would rather be alone than to be with someone for the wrong reasons.. I try to be happy all of the time, it is impossible to be happy all of the time, but not impossible to try.. If I am trying to be happy with my life, I do not need to be hooked up with someone who is not for me, then I would have to start looking for happiness all over again..

Hello, my name is stagewhisper. I am 20 years old, and have yet to be in any sort of relationship with anyone. I have always had the opinion that, if the right opportunity came along and I found someone I wouldn't get drained spending a lot of time with, then I would be happy getting together with them. However, I have no urge or intention to go looking for a relationship that I don't need, and might not want. In the end, it would make both myself and my companion at the time unhappy, and unhappiness is something I rarely wish on anyone- let alone people I care about at all. In short, I'd rather be alone for the right reasons.

If you're with someone for the wrong reasons, you're still very much alone. I was engaged to my "first" love at the age of 20. But my feelings changed. Unfortunately, his did not. I had to break his heart to keep mine whole. If I would have stayed with him, I would have isolated myself and become depressed.

no, i would not be with someone for wrong reason. its better to stay alone than that. it will make more problem to be with a wrong person.i think its my view

hi mommyboo! i'm one of those people who are afraid to be alone when i grow old. and yes, i agree. even if people are born in a family, have some friends while growing up, but they would still feel alone once in a while. i feel that way too. during those times, i feel like no one can truly understand me and that makes me feel alone in this world. i don't really believe in soulmates but i would like to because it is a concept that kinda gives hopes to people who wants someone to truly understand them and be with them forever. in my case, even if i don't want to be alone while living my life until i grow old, it doesn't make me settle for someone i do not love or i don't have any feelings for. i think feelings are important because that is the foundation of the need of a person to make someone happy which would make that person happy too. at times, i get tired of waiting for someone i can love and who would love me, i would entertain the idea of choosing anyone but when i'm on to it, i wouldn't be able to do it because i just can't force myself to do something in contrast to my feelings. so in the end, i wound up waiting again. i guess i just believe in love.

Certainly not staying with someone for the wrong reasons. It's never a good choice but it's one that many people do, because it is a bit easier than learning to rely on ourselves and because for some people being alone is a signal of failure. Peer pressure also has something to do with this, specially in teens and young adults, but not only. And the majority of kids/some adults is quite influenced by that. Of course one can always make a mistake. THink that someone is the right one just to find a bit later that it is not. ANd that is normal. But choosing to stay with someone just not to be alone, or because we don't think we would be able to make it alone, or any of the possible variations, never really works.

alone... I am no longer afraid of that!

I would rather be alone than staying in a relationship that is not worthwhile.Happiness is the most important part of our life so it is best to be with the right person whom you love and be happy the rest of your life.

There's a lot of reason why people need to be with someone. It could be for the wrong reason or the right reason. I choose the right reason because i don't want to mess up my already mess up life. Ironic, isn't it? I need to be someone that can give me love and attention. Someone who listen and understand my self. But i am not the type who take everything for granted. I return the love and affection because I know how it feels to be loved.