Who i shoud listen to ?

can do both

that is a very tough decision to make. but give your self time to be alone and listen to what is inside of you. the question here is not what your mother or your boyfriend want but what do you really want? ask yourself in what decision will you be happy. pray for guidance it can surely help :)

konghuafangf Wow what a delima. In such a situation I think it is good to list out the advantages and disadvantages of each choice so that you get 4 columns like this. College Marry adv disad adv disad Then you begin to get a clearer picture. After you listed the main ones you need to talk with some close friends/confidant with that list and they will give you their views. Then follow your heart, it is so important a decision. One good thing is that you got until closer to graduation to make your final decision, but you can start the process now and decide finally when the time comes. I wish you well in your decision.

It has to be YOUR decision. Your mum loves you and probably wants you to get further education so that you'd develop yourself to your full potential and be in a better position to support yourself if you needed to. Your boyfriend loves you and wants to be with you. Perhaps there's a way you could do both? You dont have to be single to study. How long would you be at postgrad? Who would be funding it? You have your whole life ahead of you - be happy.

u can get married to ur boyfrend weneva u want to...itz neva late till 35...but if u wanna pursue post graduation den listen to ur parents first coz ur boyfrend can leave u anytime but ur carrer will neva leave u and yes ur family too will neva do so...i have had experience of wat u r facin rite now...n a commited person left me n i ruined my 2 gud years for a gal...i wudnt like sumthin like dat happenin to sumone else..sorry to say dat but dez are facts of life