Can you love several ones at the same time?
By ifglan
@ifglan (1152)
China
July 4, 2008 9:10am CST
Hi,ladys and gentlemen,boys and girls:
As we all know,love is a complex thing,we can handle everything we can't handle love problems with great confidence.you love me,i love you,you also love her,i hate you....something like that,it seems like a food chain,we are all the persons being circled with trouble...
So,here,i want to ask a question:
can you love several ones at the same time? If so,can each love be equal?
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19 responses
@gemini_rose (16264)
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5 Jul 08
I do actually think that we can love more than one person at any given time. I remember being in love with two men, I was only young then but these two guys meant a lot to me, I ended up letting them both go at pretty much the same time both through different reasons and they were not full relationships but I could just not choose between the two of them. It was thus easier to let them both go rather than try and be with both of them and end up hurting them.
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@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
5 Jul 08
gosh, how can you do that? is it the true felling of yours to them?
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@gemini_rose (16264)
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5 Jul 08
Yes, I loved them both in different ways, it was too confusing and I could not decide which I loved more, I let them both go, it was easier that way.
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@latriciajones (846)
• United States
4 Jul 08
i dont think that is true for relationships, but for family it can be. fr instance you can love both of your sons the same. but for a relationship your heart is only supposed to belong to one person.if i love one person and then fall for another ten i truly must dnt love the first person to even allow my heart to fall for another.
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@latriciajones (846)
• United States
5 Jul 08
i am not saying you cant love more than one person, of course you can love you mother, brother, friend, cousin and you ant and uncles. but when it comes to relationship love its no true to love another. and if you love an ex boyfriend its not the same type of love because you would still be with him.
@hiteshrup (270)
• India
5 Jul 08
I am not with you,
if you have time then go to college or school. where you find filter who love more than one girls/boys
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Yes,I can love several ones at the same time.. I love my parents, my brother, my sisters, my nieces, my friends and my boyfriend.. I am loving them at the same time.. I can't say that my love for them are equal... I think I have different feeling or love with different person.. But if you're thinking another meaning then I can't answer your question because I have never experience falling in love more than one men at the same time... I think it can be happen for some.. I don't know..
@msedge (4011)
• United States
6 Jul 08
I believe we can love several people at the same time but on different kind and level.We love our parents, brothers and sisters,other relatives and friends but its different love we feel for our husband and children.But it doesn't mean we love the other less.Its just that we have our own priorities and i think our family comes first.
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@hiteshrup (270)
• India
5 Jul 08
ya if person can have ability to speak lie with his/her partner, then he/she can love more than ones at the same time.
I really like those peoples. because they are very active, sharp while communicating with his/her partners
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@latriciajones (846)
• United States
5 Jul 08
but then if it is a lie then it is not love. and people still in school i consider to be still children, they dont know what love is and they are all about games. i dont have time for games trix are for kids.
@littlepinoy (600)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
Yes. One can love several times, at different levels of love.
If one loves several people at the same time in the same level in terms of relationships, that's infidelity for me.
As for me, it's okay for my lover-at-heart to have physical-intimacy with other people as long as they remain that way and not lovers-at-heart.
Once they do, I break up with my lover. Idealistic huh?
By the way, I can love my mother and my father at the same time for the same reasons and at the same level.
@makaira (1158)
• Philippines
5 Jul 08
i honestly dont have any experience on this as i havent been into any relationship but i can could say that yes, we can love several ones all at the same time but on different levels. but sometimes, the difference for the love that you feel for a certain person and another maybe as thin as a hair line that its to differentiate.
cheers!
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@weng_08 (282)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
I don't think that is possible...and I think that won't be fair. I would only love one person, I still believe that real love exists (I hope). I still have faith that one true love will come my way.
I wouldn't want my loved one to love someone else either...that would surely break my heart...
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@aryajayaprakash (1643)
• Japan
5 Jul 08
I love to have more, but my wife won't agree with that idea. It makes me think the situation of one of my friend who were trapped between wife and extra girl. It was a pathetic condition for him. Sometimes I like to imagine, but always my better half fills that space in the mind. helpless !!
@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
5 Jul 08
NO i cannot, its impossible. At least for me. I can't do this. Love touches just one time to just one person. It can't be called true love if it occurs with multi person.
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@amitpuri (457)
• India
5 Jul 08
It actually depends on the kind of love you are having for the someone.You can love a number of persons at the same time as just a friend or your family member but if we talk about the love between two fellow lovers then i think we can't love more than one at the same time.As i think love is the feeling that is always for the very special person so near and dear so i don't think one can love more than one with equal love and the feeling for them. So i think if you are really in the true love for someone then you can't even think for the other as far as the true relationship is concerned.
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@avidwhit (1492)
• Mexico
4 Jul 08
Personally I think we must all love one another. As far as the love being equal I have to say for a lack of better words Its equal and different. For example Love may love A child a friend boy friend a spouse a neighbor all wih equal love just different types. All these far under the love unbrella though. Sincerely love. :)
@agladiator (233)
• Bangladesh
5 Jul 08
hmmmmmm, hhhhmmm
its really a very very and very complex thing. in my life i fall in love several time. everyday i go out of my home and when see a cute, nice, beautiful girl i fall in love with her. you know the main thing is i do not know what is love. and i can't tell any girl that i love you :-).
@calajane (1003)
• Poland
5 Jul 08
Of course you can love more than one person at the time. Hello, you love your parents, and your siblings, and your partner and your kids and your friends. It's all love. Now I have to quote a Disney movie, because it's cheesy, but I think in this case it fits. You don't take away love from one person to give to another. You just make more love. It's that simple.