Being single

Being alone, Cow - Cow, animal, being alone
Japan
July 4, 2008 11:32am CST
Eventhough married, as part of work and baby-expect, I am single now. Being single is the worst thing in the life, I feel. Being with somebody makes me that I am something. This is the secondary reason I joined in discussion here. What is your say in this matter?
6 responses
• Jamaica
8 Jul 08
Hi i am angellaca It is your opinion that being with somebody makes you feel that you are something. but i think you should look at it again, if being with somebody who makes you feel that you are something, you should be by yourself so that you can be somebody and not something (understood?) I am single,but it does not mean that i wouldn't like to get married, i would love to, but sometimes its for the best, too much headaches. ever heard this? Single, Free and disengaged? nothing to worry about. not for every body though. Solution : be somebody and not something (love)
@doeeod (3)
7 Jul 08
Hi... I don't think my worth or unworthy is depending on whether I'm with or without someone. I do want to marry and have kids, and everything else, but, that doesn't define me as better or worse with or without all that. I enjoy myself being single, I love being me, and I like to be me, experiencing what I can experience as I am. WHY? because if I don't want to be with me than what makes anyone would want to? If I don't love myself, who would? If I myself don't like me, then what makes you think anyone would? The point is, whether you are single or married, happiness doesn't come with that status or label, happiness is what we want to think of us regardless of our present situation. Be grateful for what we are and where we are, and you will be happier than thinking if only this would happen than I would be happier... No, you can be happy now as a single person, because you see you are worthy to be happy.
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I've been married and single, and to me, it takes time to adjust to both. I have come to a point in my life that if no one else comes into my life, then I let me be woman enough to accept it and move on. God didn't give me no man when I came into the world, and though there are men out there that would like to be with me, I don't need no mess and confusion. So, to me, I best off being single.
@toddsarm (766)
• Canada
5 Jul 08
im single and like being single
• India
4 Jul 08
Hey Arya, Its so true that being alone makes u worse... I jus don wana be like that at any cost , u really gotta look for a good company in the palce u live now.. At any cost if u want company u jus ping me.. :) Regards, Dannie http://urcognizance.blogspot.com
• Thailand
6 Jul 08
I don't think you need someone to make you find your own self worth. the only way you can seem even remotely attractive to anyone is to be independent.