How long did it take for your diagnosis?
@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
United States
7 responses
@techangel (15)
• United States
15 Jul 08
Well...although I think it may have started when I was 19 and in a car accident, it was inflamed and became a major problem 7 years ago. At that time, I began losing feeling in my hands, losing strength, falling, having severe pain, severe TMJ, and the list goes on. For 7 years I tried to get answers, and the military dr's kind of looked at me, then eventually said that there was nothing wrong and that I just needed to be a tougher military wife and deal with it.
Finally, I was allowed to get an off-post civilian Dr, who sent me to a rheumatologist, who rapidly figured out what was wrong.
Now, I am taking Lyrica, and have a life again, with much less pain! After all these years of not being listened to!
@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
• United States
18 Jul 08
Can you tell me a little more about Lyrica? Is it a pain reliever, should it work instantly, or does it take a while to get into your system before you notice a difference?
Thanks for your response!
@patgalca (18363)
• Orangeville, Ontario
29 Dec 08
I tried Lyrica and was a total waste. The doctor had me reduce the dosage but I was still talking like a drunk. I couldn't even hold a pen to write. Different medications react differently to different people. After all we are not robots. You must work by trial and error to find the medication that works for you. Lyrica definitely is not the medicine for me!
@patgalca (18363)
• Orangeville, Ontario
22 Dec 08
I was fortunate enough to get a quick diagnosis. I developed fibromyalgia shortly after (or maybe even before) I gave birth to my second child. I was on maternity leave and expected to return to work. I new I couldn't in the condition I was in so I got prompt appointments to various doctors and was diagnosed quickly.
Unfortunately that was followed by a 5 month legal battle with my company's insurance company. Eventually I got a lump sum settlement (not enough as far as I'm concerned. That was almost 7 years ago and you can be sure that money is long gone.
But I have learned my limitations, how to pace myself, found the blessings and learned to accept the things I cannot change. Attitude can go a long way in helping people cope with life.
@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
• United States
29 Dec 08
You are right, attitude plays a very big role in all of this. Even without a confirmed diagnosis, I have set out to make the best of what I have. I have a really hard time slowing down when I need to. I have at least become aware of when my body is telling me to, I just don't listen well...I never have :)
I have been battling this for almost 9 years, I just want a firm answer from my doctor....and I'm beginning to think that will never happen :(
@patgalca (18363)
• Orangeville, Ontario
29 Dec 08
I know it is hard in places other than Canada where you have to pay for your health care, but you will get a quick diagnosis if you see a rheumatologist. Rheumies specialize in fibro and arthritis. If you can get a referral to a rheumatologist you will get a diagnosis pretty quickly. Good luck.
@bam001 (940)
• United States
12 Sep 08
I don't want to give bad news...but it took me over 5 years to get an official DX of fibromyalgia. I have been having problems for 7 or 8 years and realized about 2 years into the symptoms that fibro existed. I started trying to find a doctor who would help me, but since fibro doesn't show up in a test, they would all tell me that nothing was wrong. I even had one to pat me on the shoulder and tell me that I was just depressed and this is hwo life would be for me from now on. I fired him!
Since then, I have been told that "we think you have fibro, but let's keep testing because I don't like that DX." I have also been told that I don't have fibro, I have a vitamin/mineral deficiency. Ummm....not anymore and I still hurt like you wouldn't believe.
I have just recently gotten the firm DX of fibromyalgia and have found a doctor who is willing to really work with me on trying to alleviate the symptoms so taht I can have as normal a life as possible.
@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
• United States
14 Sep 08
Yeah, it seems as that is the normal case. It Sucks that there isn't a better way to get help sooner.
My doc seemed to be all set to get on the ball, but then she became pregnant, and now is ready to pop, and doesn't seem to be as intuitive to her patients as usual.
Since March, she has tested for rhumetoid arthritis, cholesterol, lupus, and a few others. She put me on the same acid reducers as I've usd since I was 12, the same migraine meds as I've used since 13, and a new depression med that made me gain weight (which isn't helpng the arthritis I already knew I had).
Nothing is better, and there is no progress. Hopefully once she has her baby and gets back to work, things will move along a little better/faster.
@sunnflr (2767)
• United States
15 Jul 08
I have been diagnosed with fibromyalgia for almost 5 years now. I had it longer than that but they had to rule out other conditions. I was checked for all auto immune diseases and had to get my thyroid condition under control. Once all of that was complete they said I had fibromyalgia.
I have 60 symptoms and conditions associated with fibromyalgia. If I didn't have it I don't know what they'd say I have with that many things that go along with the condition.
I know it's hard to live with this problem. I'm hurting really bad today because rain is coming. I could never live somewhere it rained alot!
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
11 Dec 08
well i think i have had it my whole life since i dont remember a moment with out pain but i think i was like 23 before they figured it out.. i actually somewhat had figured it out at 20 because i saw on a tv show where some one had fibromyalgia and so i looked it up and figured it out and then went on the insane journey of trying to find a doctor that believed in it and believed me and that took years of tests and being told i was faking it and everything.. i finally have docs now for fibro but none of the medication has helped so i am just winging it day to day
@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
• United States
18 Dec 08
Thanks for the reply. Your story sounds painful familiar. It seems that no one gets the answers in a timely manner. Now that my doc is off maternity leave, maybe things will move again...but I have to take the next step in making an appointment :(
@Shawna718 (132)
• United States
20 Sep 08
I have had symptoms on and off for about 10 years. When I started losing feeling in my fingers and toes and losing sleep, I was tested for everything- I thought it was MS or diabetes. My primary care physician was checking my throat, glands, and neck for the umpteenth time and looking at my chart in a puzzled way. Then it was just like a light bulb turning on above her head- She stated in a gleeful way: I think you have Fibromyalgia! She seemed happy for a minute and then turned serious. She told me I wasn't going to die and to look it up online. She gave me Elavil to sleep at night, Flexeril to combat the muscle cramps and spasms and Tramadol for pain. Then she set me up with a rheumatologist to care for me from then on. So my diagnosis took 8 years but the symptoms all built up during that time until I was a total wreck. I am doing better now, but it still sucks.
Oh and I took Lyrica for 6 months and had to stop. I gained close to 30 lbs and I slept ALL the time. It does work for some people though so don't be afraid to try it.
@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Weight gain is a big issue for me, since I notice a huge difference in my overall wellbeing the more pounds pile on. I worked hard for three years to drop a mere 50 pounds, then within 3 months of being on depression meds I gained back nearly half of those!! I have since stopped taking that med, and am slowly dropping again. What good is a med to me if its going to end up making me feel worse in the long run?? I'm glad to hear you are doing better...its too bad this disease takes so long to diagnose!
@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I'm not sure exactly when my fibro started. Perhaps if the medical community had a better handle on what causes it, it might give me a better idea of when it started.
I had a back injury in 1997, was rear ended in my car twice in 2000 (in one I had a whiplash injury), then had a knee injury in 2002. The pains never went away...and I developed new pains and started getting "foggy brained". I had IBS for about 15 years. My hands started tingling and I was told that's often a sign of arthritis, but there were no signs of it (then). I started being tired all the time, and yet had trouble getting to sleep.
Finally, in 2003, I saw a rheumatologist, who diagnosed the fibromyalgia. To do that, he tested for all sorts of things - arthritis, lupus, etc. and came to the conclusion that since it wasn't any of those, it had to be fibro.