Does real frienship exist between a man and a woman?
By ylj1266
@ylj1266 (39)
China
July 5, 2008 8:06am CST
The day I first met him was at the first lesson in college. I came across a guy wearing highschool uniform, the same school I studied in. I was at that time sort of dying for making new friends in a totally new viroment,so I went up to him and introduced myself.
We had a nice chat that time.Tell you what's funny: it turned out our family were living in the same street and our phone number has only a figure less.Few days later when I told mom about this guy,she says she does not only know him, but was familiar with his father who had been in chase of my aunt,although he finally faild.
At that moment I felt it was destiny made us meet each other and I thought he would be a good friend. And that proved true. He was so warm-hearted, gentle and thoughtful. He was always there when i needed help. In return, I reated him well. For me, he was a faithful friend I adore.
Maybe I was a little naive to hold that thought. Our friendship didn't last long because he vindicated to me one night.He refused to be only my friend, and I feel awkward to see him again, so it was over.
Many people say there's never gonna be real pure friendship between man and woman. The friendship I mention here is kind of deep one, which means you can totally trust this guy and tell him everything in your life, even secrets you have never told your husband;he comforts you when you are sad;you two care about each other;he'll be right there when you need him.
I believe that, if someone has been such a good friend to you, if he's not a gay, he's in love with you!
If you don't agree with me, show your experience!
1 response
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
6 Jul 08
Yeah, it does. A friendship is a friendship, at least that's the way I take it. You can have a platonic relationship, it's not that rare if you look for it. Everyone needs a platonic friend that takes an interest in you on a personal level. It's really nice once you've had it.
@ylj1266 (39)
• China
6 Jul 08
I have had one,platonic relationship with a really good man. But it still makes me feel guilty for betraying my husband mentally, and he felt the same. It was a short romantic experience.We haven't talked to each other since then for 8years. During these non-talking 8 years I often dreamed about him, about days we spent togehter. It bothers me a lot. I wish I could erase all from my mind the memories about him,thoroughly.