Why do myLotters take such a narrow view of Friends?

Some delete because they say the person has not answered any of their discussions..Some delete because they get mad at the person because they don't like the persons response..Some have deleted because they do not like what discussions they start,and some delete because they say they have nothing in common with that person....This is all the things that i have heard them complain about...To me that is not a good reason but thought i would share with you what i have heard people say............when they delete.

Spoken like a True Friend! Its always been a mystery to me (the details of a Friends Deletion. I'm sure those who do the deletions have a reason, but I've never been able to get it through my "tiny little Mind!"

It would be hard to delete a friend! Seems so final to me, but I suppose its not. Something like a divorce, so if you fall back in Love you can remarry!

Yes, its been said that,'even a mouse couldn't live on the proceeds of myLot!' But the Perk is part of the fun. I enjoy exercising my mind and try to never make a spelling mistake, or use a word with the wrong meaning.

Some come and some go, but that is Life isn't it? Would you write that deceased person from your friendship list just because his time had come? There is something sacred about friendship. I can't put my finger on it but I can feel it in my Heart.

MyLot is a comfortable place. When your here you are among Friends. I like to sit down after a days work and respond to a few Posts. Then I feel relaxed and rested! What more could a Man ask for?

I like to think, friends don't always have to Agree. Its a free Program,(this myLot) we can agree to disagree, and still remain friends!

I am not concerned in the least about personal deletions. Nothing I can think of would upset me less. As a matter of fact, I wouldn't care if they took the friends list (and the star rating)and ran them both through their myLot paper shredder.

I have a friend whose discussions I enjoy very much. She seems to come and go! I believe she just is very restless. Anyway I always look forward to her coming back to myLot again.

Yes I find myself thinking,"I wonder if that person has deleted me?" and it must feel really bad to be a deleted friend just because you took a 3 month vacation. We surly are all internet friends!

Dear Hatley: I know we are friends, and I intend to stick by you through Thick and Thin!I can't remember whether you came to me, I came to you, or we both met in the middle? All I know is that you have not deleted me as yet, and I'm hoping you never do! I hope I can be as friendly as you are! Hugs from Barehugs!

I turn my notify off also when a friend is trying too hard and is making one-line postings. I don't reply to oneliners. The post has to be interesting and something I can get my mind into. I liked your response!

I've not noticed the insensitivity, but I suspect there is some. People striving to do as many posts every day as they possibly can, would add to the frustration. But its the brain exercises every day that keep me interested. As a senior I need to keep my brain active. You know the olde Adage?- Use it or Loose It!

I have to admit that I have added a few to my friends list. Everyone has something different in their personality. There are a couple of friends on here that match my interests very closely. I added those and we have from time to time sent private messages back and forth.

Meant that I do not have any personal info on my profile page, does anyone? Plus none of my friends have bombarded me with any messages yet so there's no problem at all... If it was on facebook where I have personal info and pics of me and my family, then that would be a different issue as I really have to pick and choose then... Here, it's all good:)

Some people are here just for the Money. But the majority enjoy the friendship and camaraderie as well. I seldom answer the one-line posts. And the one-word posts make me Laugh.

I always say,"Once a Friend, Always a Friend! and it always works for me. Friends are few and far between. We myLotters are so fortunate to have so many Friends!

See you. Take care.

Over time we all get mixed in together in the Great mixing-pot called myLot. We go into the mix as strangers and come out as Friends. Its a nice idea for strangers from all over the world to get mixed together and its surprising how well we all Get along. See you later, Friend!

My apologies for the misconception! I guess its better to turn a friend off, than to delete him/her all-together!

What can I say? You did what you needed to do! Reminds me of- When you Have to Go you have to Go! Or the constipated Owl, who worked it out with a Lead Pencil.

I'm with you too, boo,boo!

Friends need to stick together. I think myLot will do much to make the world a better place. This is why its important for friends to stick together!

Yes. True friends will stick together, the longer we are with somebody we will see differences and what we have in commons, it is a fact of life that we cannot agree all the time with everybody, although that doesn't mean we cannot agree to disagree, but not everybody can accept differences and OK with it. So, yes, TRUE friends, REAL friends will stick together through thick and thin, or tolerable people will tolerate differences and each others, but there are also people that are less tolerable, like there will be people who cannot befriended us, or we just cannot befriended someone because of one or other reasons. For me, that's the reality of life. We cannot choose where we were born, unto whom and who will be our siblings. But we can choose our friends, and other people too have the right to choose their friends (^_^). I just think we should cherish the ones we have, and let go of someone that doesn't want or don't feel that they can be friends with us, it's OK to like or dislike, that's only human. That's my 2cents.

'Many persons are both wise and handsome-but they would probably be still wiser were they less handsome.' -The Talmud.