why i have none

well you have grown up more since school and people are more individuals by now so that might be why its harder now.. do you have any social groups like meetup.com in your area that you could meet people with your certain interest?? some times you just have to wait till the friends come to you because you dont want to have just anyone and they end up hurting and betraying you later

dear fwangaa as we grow up our group of friends changes for we change as a person. Our likes and dislikes changes with time as well. And I am sure you will soon get another group of friends who would be as close as your school friends and this friendship will stay life time. Friendship is precious and good friends will come to you . you can never go out in search for them. It will happen no matter what. Good luck, sweetie.

In school, can you really call those people your friends? Aquantinces is more like it. In the long run you never really remain friends with the people you were friends with in Elementry, Middle School and High School.. Unless you stay in the same town. Sure, some people do remain friends for 10+ years after graduating school and what not. But hardly ever do you see that type of friendship lasting. Truth is friends come and go. some people change, and some people dont. You gotta live life for yourself and not for your friends. Dont stress if you dont have any friends. Right now your time should be focused on school. Although it is the summer, so join a camp, get a hobby, join a group some type of social event. You can make new friends you just need to try. It's good to have new friends and meet new people, the same people get boring once you grow up. Close friends is a thing that takes a while, you need to build a bond together some sort of trust and friendship. You cant rush it 'cause it wont be real. Also, when you dont have friends, you have your family. If you dont have your family, get a pet. Puppies do wonders..

maybe you are too busy to spare your time with the people around you.so you can try to apare some time to share with the others. i think close friends will not leave you as the time flies.and if we have a few close friends in our life,it is enough.we cannot look forward to having too many,i think. i have a few,and we donot touch with each other,but when we are in trouble,we likes to tell each other and do our best to help each other.so maybe this is called friendship. if you want to have more friends,i think it is very easy,pay attention to the people around you and always be nice and helpful to them.be sure you will have a lot of friends soon,but it is a little hard to be close friend.the people who are kind and can share your happiness and sadness can be your good friends. Good luch!hope this is useful for you!